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Tease and Denial Fun

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 26 Aug 2010 04:57:36 +0000

When I have a caller who asks for tease and denial, I need information from that caller. The three part question I ask callers at the start of the call: do they want (1) a guaranteed release at the end of the call; (2) a guaranteed denial at the end of the call, or (3) leave it up to me what happens.

Since option 3 gives me the most discretion, how do I decide whether I will permit or deny that release? Lots of factors enter into my decision. How frequently have I spoken with the caller? Is he someone with whom I work regularly, or a first time caller? Has he set a very tight time cutoff for the call? Or is the call time unlimited, or at least long enough to provide a nice long tease time (typically 45-60 minutes or over for me)?

If I have a regular caller on a training schedule, that schedule will dictate whether he is permitted to have a release and, in fact, I won’t even ask him the three part question. We’ve already long since passed that area of information and are into regular training.

With a caller I’m talking with for the first time, the decision is much more subjective and difficult. As a phone sex Mistress I love to hear callers moan and beg as they move up the pleasure scale when stroking. As they get closer to the edge, I expect to hear them begin to ask and then finally beg me to let them cum. The promises they make to me when in such a state are many (and rarely kept). The frantic desperation in their voices, the heavy breathing, the sounds of sexual pleasure approaching the peak are music to my ears.

Those with very short time limits for the call may not have a chance for a release because there just isn’t enough time for me to take them up and down the pleasure scale enough before I decide about the release. They also need to remember that showing pleasure is much more fun for me than those “bite the bullet” types who stroke in silence. So, let me know how much you’re enjoying your call. That’s your best chance of getting a release from me in a tease and denial call.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio. I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you. See www.eroticaudios.com.

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The Value of Anticipation in Creating a Great Fetish Phone Sex Session

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 02:46:15 +0000

I know many of you look forward to your calls with me and the other LDW Mistresses. As a phone sex Mistress, I can hear the excitement in your voice when you reply to my questions and engage in conversation. When I am dispatching, I hear it in the excitement and anxiety when your favorite Mistress is not available and you must wait for her. But, how much greater would it be if you and your Mistress deliberately increased your anticipation of the session? From experience, I know the session would be greater for both you and me (or your other Mistress).

So, how do I go about building anticipation for my callers? It differs for each caller and is definitely based on the type of fetish the caller enjoys. If you love guided masturbation or tease and denial, I might have you refrain from stroking or cumming for a period of days prior to our call. I might also direct you to look at photos on a sexy lingerie site during that time. During your call I would very slowly and deliberately increase your excitement, teasing you, then bringing you to the edge over and over before the end of the call. For my lovely cocksuckers, I also deny them stroking and cumming, and might direct them to men’s underwear sites where they can check out hot sexy guys to have their appetite whetted for our call. For guys loving cuckold fantasies I might have them read cuckold stories on the internet to increase their anticipation.

No matter what fetish you like, including CBT and bondage, anticipation will only make your call more exciting and enjoyable. So, be sure to plan your calls with me in advance so I can give you assignments to increase that anticipation!

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Are You Masturbating More and Enjoying It Less?

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 02:19:18 +0000

As a phone sex Mistress, I notice that some callers approach stroking sessions very seriously. I understand this. The sessions cost money from their entertainment budget and they want to get every possible benefit from that cost. However, I have observed some callers who are so serious that they virtually eliminate pleasure from their guided masturbation sessions.

How do they do this? They say almost nothing during their entire session. There is no discussion of what they do and don’t enjoy or any taboos they might have. I hear no heavy breathing or moaning, no begging or pleading. Instead, they stroke silently, cum and quickly hang up the phone.

Where is the pleasure? The excitement? The desire to enjoy the stroking as well as the orgasm? All of it seems to be missing and I feel that the caller refused to permit me to help him gain the maximum pleasure from the session.

Some callers set an alarm clock so they hang up at a particular time and that seems to distract them from the pleasure. We at LDW can set an automatic cutoff for you if you wish and I will know what the automatic cutoff is and do my best to time the session so you finish within that time frame. That way you can relax and let yourself enjoy the stroking and orgasm.

Then, of course, I have other callers who let me know how much they’re enjoying their session. I hear the excitement in their heavy breathing, in their moans and groans. They beg and plead just to touch their cock or balls before I finally permit them to do so. Then their volume increases as their excitement reaches new levels. Finally, when they can hardly bear it any longer, I permit them to cum. Their pleasure, in both the journey and the release, is so much fun for both of us!

As a Mistress, I enjoy my guided masturbation callers’ pleasure in their releases and miss that pleasure when it is not expressed. When you’re ready for an exciting erotic stroking session, give me a call!

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Erotic Non-Stroking Tease & Denial

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 02:10:03 +0000

I can hear you now saying, “What do you mean, tease & denial without stroking? How can I be teased without stroking?”

Well, stick around and check it out. I’ve done this multiple times with a long time caller who is looking for more kick than he gets from guided masturbation or strict orgasm denial. He has developed such trust of me that he begs me to select the training to be done on any given session. As a phone sex Mistress, I know this is a result of my efforts at improving communication and trust between us.

Ok, ok, I hear you wondering how I manage to tease him without letting him touch. Here’s an example. During one session, I instructed him to visualize himself sitting in his bedroom in the dark. Then he sees a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his. She comes into enters her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, and begins to stroke herself. As her excitement increases and my non-stroking guy is sure she’s about to have an orgasm, her husband enters the bedroom, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they begin a marathon sexual session.

My caller, on a “do not stroke” instruction, told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.” After an hour of me describing the action in the apartment across the way, he was panting and trembling more than if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time. However, he had not touched himself, nor had he cum, though he was certainly ready for that orgasm.

During the entire session, I told him that because he was a stroker boy, he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, kiss and possess. After I ended the fantasy, I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call. We ended the call with him still breathing heavily and very excited.

Because this particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills, I was able to create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to get him to the edge and keep him there without his ever touching himself.

Are you interested in pushing the envelope, trying to move further in your erotic training than you ever have before? Give me a call and I’ll create a great scene for you. It might not work for you if you don’t trust me or if you aren’t good as visualization, but a true erotic experience should be sought, now shouldn’t it?

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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How to Create Trust Between Mistress and Fetish Caller

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:51:25 +0000

One thing that happens when a caller does multiple calls with just one phone sex Mistress is that the two develop an increased level of trust. Once that trust happens, the training sessions become much more intense and rewarding for the caller.

As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to create this level of trust. I ask lots of questions and carefully listen to the answers so I can learn enough about my caller to be able to decide what each training session will contain.

While I’m getting to know the fetish caller, I encourage him tell me what training he is seeking—orgasm denial, cuckold, humiliation, CBT, bondage, for example. From that, I begin very basic training sessions in that area while asking questions to learn more about my caller. It’s true that some callers do not respond to questions and only want to “get off.” For such callers, I may never be able to create a sufficient level of trust to give them a truly great session.

Other callers do understand the long term value of talking to the Mistress so she is better able to create truly unforgettable sessions. For those callers, trust is the reason the Mistress has the freedom to mold those great sessions.

The more information I obtain, the better I can direct sessions which increase the caller’s satisfaction. The more information I have and the more satisfied the caller becomes, the trust level increases exponentially. In my experience, the more information the caller gives me and the better I listen to that and process it, the better I can push his buttons to get closer and closer to that perfect fetish fantasy call.

I have such fun with the callers with whom I have developed this trust; in fact, I sometimes think I have almost as much fun as they do. When a caller hands over ultimate control to me, I know I have succeeded in weaving a web of trust around our sessions.

Recently, a long-time orgasm denial caller of mine decided it was time to trust me to take the lead and determine what the session will be each time he calls. We had experimented with body worship, cuckold, and some light spanking, all of which he enjoyed. With all that, I have a huge amount of information on which to draw in directing future sessions.

We discussed different ways things might go given his fetish interests and I learned a couple of new things. Yes, still listening. And I will continue to listen, of course. Since the trust is now there, I also give him assignments to do between sessions and deny him the right to stroke unless he is on the phone with me. Without trust, I could not effectively do these things.

In order to achieve great sessions, I need to maintain and increase the level of trust and continue to create great fetish fantasy sessions for my caller. To do this, I keep on communicating with my caller, asking more questions and listening carefully in order to learn even more. For those of you who wonder if there is more than just talking to someone so you can “get off,” try calling just one person for a while and developing that level of trust with her. You’ll find yourself experiencing better and better sessions and find out that there’s so much more to experience and enjoy.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Erotic Fantasy and Visualization

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 22:11:09 +0000

The best phone sex Mistresses are experts at helping callers visualize their fantasy. Now, I don’t necessarily tell the caller that’s what I’m doing. In fact, he is likely not even aware that I’m doing this because it’s a matter of creating a scene so enticing that he eagerly enters it. At that point, I use word pictures to transport him into and through his fantasy. Creating that fantasy is key to what I do as a phone sex Mistress and is something I enjoy doing. Yes, it takes time, but the experience is more than worth it.

Imagine, if you will, a tease and denial or guided masturbation session where the caller is able to see and feel a woman there with him, with her instructing, watching and perhaps stroking him. It is my job to describe the scene and participants so well that the caller lives it.

With coerced bi trainings, I bring out the feeling, scent and sight of the other man and his cock. In addition, I create a scene where the caller gets to experience his fantasy of sucking a cock or being fucked because he is ordered to do so. Naturally, it’s what he wants, but he thinks it’s wrong to want it, so he needs me to “force” him to experience this.

When you’re looking for a great fantasy, one that you can see, smell, feel, and taste, give me a call. I’ll create a scene from words that will bring your fantasy to life for you.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Sensual or Strict Guided Masturbation –Which Do You Prefer?

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 08:04:58 +0000

Guys jack off; it’s a fact of life. From the time their hormones kick in, guys jack off every chance they get. Ever wonder why high school boys ask for so many hall passes to go to the bathroom? Well, it’s not because they have to pee.

Of course, when the hormones smooth out and the jacking off slows down. As guys (finally) mature, lots of them start looking for something to increase their wanking pleasure. Since the quantity is a thing of the past, they start looking for quality. That’s where guided masturbation and tease and denial may become options.

With a phone sex Mistress guiding them, men who want to work hard with their Mistress can achieve a level of pleasure through guided masturbation that they might never find on their own. Men willing to venture into tease and denial are also testing themselves to see just how long they can last without a release.

Phone sex Mistresses may train in a sensual or strict manner. Strict training is more in line with the harder-edged BDSM session, where the Mistress commands the caller and he does as she orders. There is very little playful talk and other interaction. This style suits the caller who is into the BDSM lifestyle.

The sensual style is more fun for the majority of today’s guided masturbation and T&D callers. These callers are rarely interested in the BDSM lifestyle. They seek the control of a Mistress but appreciate some of the sensual play and interaction from the vanilla side of phone sex.

I enjoy leading both strict and sensual guided masturbation and T&D sessions. Both are fun for me and for the callers; just tell me what it is you want before we get started.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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All Orgasms Are Not Created Equal

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 21:38:49 +0000

Not much is more satisfying than a great orgasm, right? So why is it that you sometimes feel a little “cheated” after you’ve jacked off? It just wasn’t that great, a real disappointment. What causes that?

Very simple answer: orgasms are not created equal. Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale the heights of pleasure. The question is: how do you get that great feeling more often? Let’s talk.

Think about it. When the orgasm you had isn’t great, you jerk off again, and maybe again. The problem is, the more you jack off, the more desensitized your cock becomes, and the less great the orgasm is. Then you start to jack off even harder and, instead of things getting better, they get worse, much worse. This isn’t what you wanted at all and now you’re getting desperate. So is your wife or girlfriend.

In desperation, you finally do the first smart thing you’ve done since you started trying to fix the problem yourself—you call a great Masturbatrix (or phone sex Mistress). For those of you unfamiliar with the term, a Masturbatrix is a Dominatrix who specializes in orgasm denial and in guided masturbation.

I can hear you already. “Orgasm denial? I want to cum, I just want to feel better when I cum.”

OK, you’ve come to the right place. Several orgasm denial sessions will put you into the right place physically to enjoy that release when you receive permission for it. The same thing could be accomplished with guided masturbation, but it might take longer to achieve, depending on how closely you follow the instructions of your Masturbatrix. A skilled Masturbatrix will lead you up to the heights without you ever touching your cock or balls. She’ll deny you that release. Then, finally, she’ll permit it and you’ll know just how good that orgasm can be.

If you’re cumming more and enjoying it less, it’s time to call an experienced Masturbatrix like me to take control of that cock of yours for a while until you again achieve those body-shaking, gut-wrenching orgasms you love.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Why Call a Phone Sex Mistress in Order to Masturbate?

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 16 Jul 2010 08:03:13 +0000

From the time we approach puberty (and sometimes earlier), we masturbate. In fact, with all this experience, most of us figure we’re pretty good at it. Usually we masturbate alone, sometimes with a partner, but usually alone. Lots of guys call a phone sex Mistress to masturbate. So, what is the attraction of tease and denial and guided masturbation?

I believe the lure is giving control over the male orgasm to a phone sex Mistress. This leads the caller to last longer before cumming, giving more control over the ultimate release.

My tease and denial callers typically are looking for a fun time, but they want to be pushed hard toward the edge, teased and kept at that edge, moved back and forth to the edge and still not permitted to release. My callers love to brag about how long it has been since they had their last release and how many times they have edged without release in one session. Now, I love hearing all this because I know that without my telling them “No,” they would have released much earlier and be starting over again.

Guided masturbation callers, on the other hand, are usually looking for edging, sometimes several times, followed by that satisfying release.

My favorite edging technique is to get the caller to stroke lots of their erogenous zones, getting hot without ever touching the cock or balls. Once they’re hot and begging to do so, I permit them to touch the cock and balls. I also love to keep callers at the edge for a while, stroking steadily but staying right there. Then, just for fun, I make them move just a little bit closer without cumming. The explosion, when/if it comes, is much more satisfying.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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My Hot Erotic Fantasy Caller

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 19:56:20 +0000

Every Mistress has at least one favorite phone sex slut, the guy who just loves phone sex so much and has so much fun with it that it’s a complete pleasure to talk to him. And I certainly have one. Mine loves every erotic fantasy he’s ever tried and is willing to try anything new; they all turn him on. When we first began talking, he loved guided masturbation and sometimes a little tease and denial. Since then, he’s moved into coerced bi, cuckold, voyeurism and some light bondage. He loves it all!

What he loves most is to tell me all about his fantasies and realities. Can you imagine his wife inviting their priest for a sexy dinner? Guess what was for dessert? Yep, you guessed it, cuckolded by the priest. The priest enjoyed having his cock sucked by hubby and then enjoyed the wife, much to hubby’s delight. This was different than their usual scene with her regular boyfriend, but it was so much hotter for my caller because of the priest’s collar, crucifix and other religious trimmings.

After all that, my caller was still excited, so he headed off to the local adult bookstore to find some hot cocks to suck. Not quite finished yet, he took off for the local strip club for some visual stimulation and lap dances. Oh yes, he loves it both ways and doesn’t want to be limited.

You can just imagine how hot and sexy the stories and roleplays are after he’s described these things. Does he actually do these things, or is it fantasy? It doesn’t matter, and I don’t care because it gets him hot and excited and he has a great time. Need we ask for more?

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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