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A Stroking Roleplay to Drive You Wild and Crazy

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 13:36:47 +0000

Many times tease and denial or guided masturbation callers fall into pretty predictable slots. Teasing, edging, and either a release or denial are their goals for the call. Such calls are fun for me, but I do need a huge amount of anatomical knowledge and understanding, plus the ability to mix things up for them so they keep calling back. Naturally, the moans, begging and pleading are music to my ears! As a phone sex Mistress, I love stroker boys and working with them.

Every now and then, though, I get a stroker who combines so many different areas of BDSM that I realized he didn’t need a stroking session, he needed a great roleplay. He told me he was naked and wished he was driving his car, jacking off and was then caught by a woman. Obviously, this was a case for Officer Dallas! While stopping him for erratic driving, I see him jacking off and call several of the other woman officers to watch. Naturally, I pull him, naked, from his car, make him “assume the position,” frisk and handcuff him as the other officers taunt and laugh at him.

Since he wants to be out of public view, we take him to a nearby warehouse which is used as a movie set. I don a big strapon and force him to suck it, then make him beg me to fuck him. As some of the movie workers arrive, they hear him begging and turn on cameras to capture the action as each of the officers fucks him with a dildo. The sound guy catches every syllable of his pleas, “Oh, no, please don’t…. ah, it feels so good, don’t stop.” He still hasn’t been permitted to cum, nor has he begged any of the men to fuck him with their real cocks. Finally, once he begs one of the men to fuck him, please, I finish him off with my hand.

I love the chance to become someone other than the Mistress; and Officer Dallas created such an incredible roleplay for this caller that he continues to beg for her every time he calls. That is the power of listening to your caller and being creative enough to respond with a powerful roleplay.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

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Tease & Denial or Guided Masturbation—Which Do You Want?

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 20:28:44 +0000

I have lots of callers who call from the cock control site. Many say they are looking for tease and denial. However, with a lot of them, what they really want is guided masturbation. I ask a few simple questions right at the start of the session so I can determine whether they are ready to try a tease and denial session or whether guided masturbation is what they really want.

As a phone sex Mistress, I realize that both tease and denial and guided masturbation require me to control that cock. In fact, I utilize many of the same techniques for guided masturbation callers as I do for tease and denial callers. The primary difference is the end result. Guided masturbation callers eventually experience that release. Tease and denial callers are frequently denied release, left frustrated and panting with instructions on how to stroke between sessions with me because this is what they really want.

Left to their own devices, most men would stroke hard and fast, have a release within a couple of minutes, then roll over and take a nap. However, an increasing number want to experience the increased pleasure they can achieve when they stroke slower and longer and let the good feelings build well beyond the norm. Now I am controlling their cock instead of their cock controlling them. And, I am also teaching them to control their own cock, something most of them have never been able to do successfully.

As a phone sex Mistress, I enjoy working with all stroker boys. I love to have a caller who starts out able to last only a few minutes, then gets to the point where he can last an hour or longer after regular instruction and training with me. I do love to hear the excitement and joy in a caller who has achieved that. Hope you’ll call me soon and work to increase your ultimate pleasure.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

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Spice up Orgasm Denial Sessions with Sensual Bondage

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 01:10:58 +0000

Orgasm denial callers are so much fun! They have chosen to raise the bar, to deny orgasm a lot of the time in order to focus on the process of getting to orgasm and appreciating it once it is permitted. It’s the journey that makes the destination extra special. They learn to enjoy what comes before the orgasm.

That said, it’s my job, as a phone sex Mistress, to spice up these orgasm denial sessions. I like to look for other BDSM niches to enhance my sessions so I keep my caller interested and focused on his goal. Sensual bondage is something that works great for many callers. It requires great visualization, but most denial callers already have that. One caveat, though. I will not do this with every caller and never do it with first time callers (unless they request it). I won’t spring bondage on you unless we have developed sufficient trust from many previous calls. After all, I want to be sure you enjoy your session.

Last week I used sensual bondage as part of a session with one of my long time orgasm denial callers. I set the scene to the end of our fifth date. I invited him in and he was hoping to get lucky. Of course, his definition of luck and mine were two different things! At long last I took him into the bedroom and stripped him and he was sure he was going to get laid. I undressed partway then got into bed and teased him. The bed was ready, with silk scarves tied to the headboard and footboard. As I pressed his arms up over his head, I tied his wrists to the headboard. Continuing to tease him, I made my way down his legs and tied his ankles to the bedposts. Still laughing and teasing, I folded a silk scarf several times and tied it over his eyes.

Now he would see just how lucky he’d gotten. I selected some items from the dresser and returned to the bed. Now it was time for more direct teasing. I started stroking and tickling him with a beautiful white ostrich feather. He began to moan. Next it was time to drag a soft scarf, scented with my favorite perfume, over his body. Soft mink pads were my next tool. I placed them on my hands and stroked his entire body with them. He loved the way the mink felt and almost lost control when I put the pads around his cock and stroked gently.

Finally, I donned my softest suede gloves stroked his body. He loved the way the slight roughness of the grain felt. Since he enjoys it, a little dildo play provided a wonderful end to the session. No, I did not permit him to have the release he so desired.

If you’re looking for a new way to increase your denial session, try sensual bondage. You might find you like it!

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Are You Masturbating More and Enjoying It Less?

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 02:19:18 +0000

As a phone sex Mistress, I notice that some callers approach stroking sessions very seriously. I understand this. The sessions cost money from their entertainment budget and they want to get every possible benefit from that cost. However, I have observed some callers who are so serious that they virtually eliminate pleasure from their guided masturbation sessions.

How do they do this? They say almost nothing during their entire session. There is no discussion of what they do and don’t enjoy or any taboos they might have. I hear no heavy breathing or moaning, no begging or pleading. Instead, they stroke silently, cum and quickly hang up the phone.

Where is the pleasure? The excitement? The desire to enjoy the stroking as well as the orgasm? All of it seems to be missing and I feel that the caller refused to permit me to help him gain the maximum pleasure from the session.

Some callers set an alarm clock so they hang up at a particular time and that seems to distract them from the pleasure. We at LDW can set an automatic cutoff for you if you wish and I will know what the automatic cutoff is and do my best to time the session so you finish within that time frame. That way you can relax and let yourself enjoy the stroking and orgasm.

Then, of course, I have other callers who let me know how much they’re enjoying their session. I hear the excitement in their heavy breathing, in their moans and groans. They beg and plead just to touch their cock or balls before I finally permit them to do so. Then their volume increases as their excitement reaches new levels. Finally, when they can hardly bear it any longer, I permit them to cum. Their pleasure, in both the journey and the release, is so much fun for both of us!

As a Mistress, I enjoy my guided masturbation callers’ pleasure in their releases and miss that pleasure when it is not expressed. When you’re ready for an exciting erotic stroking session, give me a call!

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Erotic Non-Stroking Tease & Denial

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 02:10:03 +0000

I can hear you now saying, “What do you mean, tease & denial without stroking? How can I be teased without stroking?”

Well, stick around and check it out. I’ve done this multiple times with a long time caller who is looking for more kick than he gets from guided masturbation or strict orgasm denial. He has developed such trust of me that he begs me to select the training to be done on any given session. As a phone sex Mistress, I know this is a result of my efforts at improving communication and trust between us.

Ok, ok, I hear you wondering how I manage to tease him without letting him touch. Here’s an example. During one session, I instructed him to visualize himself sitting in his bedroom in the dark. Then he sees a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his. She comes into enters her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, and begins to stroke herself. As her excitement increases and my non-stroking guy is sure she’s about to have an orgasm, her husband enters the bedroom, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they begin a marathon sexual session.

My caller, on a “do not stroke” instruction, told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.” After an hour of me describing the action in the apartment across the way, he was panting and trembling more than if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time. However, he had not touched himself, nor had he cum, though he was certainly ready for that orgasm.

During the entire session, I told him that because he was a stroker boy, he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, kiss and possess. After I ended the fantasy, I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call. We ended the call with him still breathing heavily and very excited.

Because this particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills, I was able to create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to get him to the edge and keep him there without his ever touching himself.

Are you interested in pushing the envelope, trying to move further in your erotic training than you ever have before? Give me a call and I’ll create a great scene for you. It might not work for you if you don’t trust me or if you aren’t good as visualization, but a true erotic experience should be sought, now shouldn’t it?

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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So You Like to Edge When Stroking!

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:11:08 +0000

Sometimes I get a caller who wants to edge. He sometimes doesn’t have a strong preference for whether he’s to be denied or to have a release. No matter what, though, he definitely loves edging. This is one of my most fun calls. I love building him to the edge and then making him edge over and over.

I suppose every Mistress has her own favorite ways of edging a caller. Some have the caller go straight for the cock, stroking it throughout the call. Others include the balls in the stroking as well. Some start with very fast strokes to get to the edge quickly, then vary the speed to keep the caller edging again and again. Others start with slow strokes and increase the speed slowly until the caller gets to the edge, then moves the caller back and forth to the edge. All these techniques work.

I, however, prefer to take a different approach. I use the entire body as the sex organ, instructing my caller to stroke various areas, building excitement before I ever permit him to touch the cock. This lets lots of nerve endings in the body participate in the excitement and creates much higher levels of excitement than the other techniques.

Once I permit my caller to stroke his cock and balls, he usually reaches the edge pretty quickly. All those other nerve endings have created so much excitement, it doesn’t take much at all to reach the edge. Then comes the fun! I have him edge closer and closer to the edge without going over it. I have lots of fun keeping my caller at the edge for a bit before slowing him down and giving him a brief respite.

Especially with tease and denial callers, I love to keep them at the edge, stroking steadily, then have them increase the speed just a bit to edge even closer. It put them much closer to the edge than the usually get and really pushes their limits. Naturally, I am also teasing him with my voice and creating fantasies to help him enjoy his session even more. After all, as a phone sex Mistress, that’s a big part of what I do to make the sessions unique for each caller.

When you’re ready for a great edging call and want to be pushed to your limits, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and we’ll have a great time getting you as far as you can go!

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Why Combine CBT with Tease & Denial? Because It’s FUN!

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 18:44:32 +0000

Great tease & denial can be very challenging. For many callers, the challenge in it is more than sufficient. However, some callers want to push the envelope and make things even more difficult. So, they ask for CBT as part of their tease & denial sessions.

As a Mistress who specializes in CBT, I love combining it with other trainings. When I have a tease and denial caller who also wants CBT, it’s both challenging and fun—for him and for me.

The combination trainings are not just doing one thing mostly and adding the other at the end. It’s a delicate balance of combining CBT with stroking to create even more excitement for the caller. For a caller who is calling me for the first time for such a combination, I try to make the time spent on each thing about even. However, when I’ve been doing regular combination sessions with a caller, I will sometimes skew a session more towards CBT and another time more towards T&D.

The ache that is created in the balls with tease and denial trainings is an on-going ache that typically lasts in between sessions. On the other hand, the sharper pain associated with CBT is over quickly and there are perhaps a few scrapes and bruises for a day or two.

I believe it is the mental part of CBT and T&D that the callers love combining. Yes, the pain is something that attracts them. It is the recollection of the session, of what they were made to do, of their own acquiecense to the humiliation of having someone else tell them how to stroke, how to torture themselves, that lasts longest for callers. That’s why they call—to get that feeling of submissiveness, of humiliation.

So, when you’re looking for that great CBT/T&D combination, give me (your favorite phone sex Mistress) a call and we’ll have some fun!

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Combining Tease & Denial with CBT Training

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 00:09:37 +0000

While most callers may not wish to combine tease and denial training with anything else, some truly love CBT training. As a phone sex Mistress, I have a lot of fun with such callers. Most of my regular readers know I just LOVE doing CBT sessions. However, I also enjoy tease and denial. So, combining two such enjoyable sessions into one caller is always enjoyable.

What I have found is that the lighter aspects of CBT are actually the “tease” for the tease and denial portion of the session. The pinching and clamping of the nipples, spanking, tying up the balls all contribute to the tease. I like to add a bit of light body stroking along the way just to get the nerve endings nicely excited.

When you think about it, tease and denial and CBT are easy to combine because they both focus on the stimulation of nerve endings. And most CBT callers hope to be given permission to cum toward the end of their call. Like tease and denial callers, they are not guaranteed a release. When I am combining both techniques in one session, then I am working with a denial caller who is not permitted to cum unless/until I give him permission to do so. This eliminates use of one of my very favorite severe pain techniques, because that technique requires a release. However, it’s also fun to deny the caller over and over and then use that technique when I finally permit the release.

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