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The Value of Anticipation in Creating a Great Fetish Phone Sex Session

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 02:46:15 +0000

I know many of you look forward to your calls with me and the other LDW Mistresses. As a phone sex Mistress, I can hear the excitement in your voice when you reply to my questions and engage in conversation. When I am dispatching, I hear it in the excitement and anxiety when your favorite Mistress is not available and you must wait for her. But, how much greater would it be if you and your Mistress deliberately increased your anticipation of the session? From experience, I know the session would be greater for both you and me (or your other Mistress).

So, how do I go about building anticipation for my callers? It differs for each caller and is definitely based on the type of fetish the caller enjoys. If you love guided masturbation or tease and denial, I might have you refrain from stroking or cumming for a period of days prior to our call. I might also direct you to look at photos on a sexy lingerie site during that time. During your call I would very slowly and deliberately increase your excitement, teasing you, then bringing you to the edge over and over before the end of the call. For my lovely cocksuckers, I also deny them stroking and cumming, and might direct them to men’s underwear sites where they can check out hot sexy guys to have their appetite whetted for our call. For guys loving cuckold fantasies I might have them read cuckold stories on the internet to increase their anticipation.

No matter what fetish you like, including CBT and bondage, anticipation will only make your call more exciting and enjoyable. So, be sure to plan your calls with me in advance so I can give you assignments to increase that anticipation!

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio. I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you. See www.eroticaudios.com.

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CBT and Humiliation

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 22:26:35 +0000

Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a painful torture training enjoyed by lots of my callers. I instruct them how to inflict various types of pain on themselves. As a responsible phone sex Mistress, I question first time callers as to prior experience with CBT, the kinds of toys and implements they have available for the session and if they have any limits or taboos. I start the pain at a low level and gradually increase it, with the most painful torture reserved for the very end of the call. The levels differ depending on what the caller is able to tolerate and still enjoy the session.

With phone sessions, the culmination of the session is for the caller to have an orgasm. While it may seem unusual to experience pain in order to achieve pleasure, callers who love CBT need pain in order to achieve the most pleasurable orgasm.

When working with a CBT fetishist who also wishes to experience humiliation, I get the caller to admit to me that he needs me to order him to torture himself in order to achieve a great orgasm. I make him admit that he knows most people do not need pain in order to achieve orgasms and that he has hidden his desire for pain for years. He has to tell me how afraid he is to tell his spouse or girlfriend about this perversion or how afraid he is to try to develop a relationship with any woman for fear she might find out and not understand.

This caller wants the Mistress to torture him so he can achieve with her what he cannot achieve in his regular life—a wonderful orgasm. He is unable on his own, or with his partner, to reach orgasm, something that the majority of men he meets do easily. So, he picks up the phone and calls a Mistress, someone he has never met, never will meet, and pays her to torture him into the glorious orgasm he so loves.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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What is the Difference between a Pro Domme and a Lifestyle Domme?

Goddess Dallas — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 22:28:04 +0000

Recently I’ve had a few callers who are confused about professional and lifestyle dominatrices. For some reason, they don’t understand that a professional dominatrix works as a dominatrix, typically making a very good living, but her lifestyle is rarely fetish-filled. On the other hand, a lifestyle dominatrix lives the lifestyle all the time, enjoying many fetishes with her partner; she may also make a living as a dominatrix. The lifestyle dominatrix lives in a dominant-submissive relationship with her husband or boyfriend and would be lost in a relationship where she couldn’t dominate her partner. The professional dominatrix leaves her dominatrix persona at work and lives in a much more give and take style than the lifestyle dominatrix.

Traditionally, sexual contact does not occur between a professional dominatrix and her clients. She does not touch their genitals and does not permit them to touch her. Humiliation and degradation, rather than sexual excitement, is the goal of the submissive who works with a professional dominatrix. Since laws in most states would consider sexual contact of any sort to be prostitution, a professional dominatrix is careful to avoid even the semblance of sexual contact.

With phone sex Mistress services and the internet, professional dominatrices have expanded their trainings to include sexuality in certain areas. Tease and denial, forced bi, cuckold fantasy and strapon fetishes all have a very strong sexual aspect. Because the trainings occur over the phone, rather than in person, prostitution laws are not an issue. Submissives now have a new, less expensive, outlet to seek out the humiliation and degradation they want along with a sexual release.

I decided to spend time discussing the differences because they are key to the type of trainings a phone sex Mistress is likely to prefer. I am a professional dominatrix; I do not have or want a submissive living with me, needing constant attention; I suspect that is true for any professional dominatrix. A lifestyle dominatrix wants and needs that submissive in her life.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Push Your Limits With Cock and Ball Torture

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 23:20:18 +0000

Pain fetish trainings aren’t for everyone. However, if you love them, or have a feeling that you might, it’s definitely time to explore this niche fetish. I have callers who enjoy cock and ball torture, nipple torture and other types of pain. They look for pain, revel in it, and generally stay hard as a rock throughout the training. These callers always ask for more, not less, pain. Push them further, make it hurt more, increase the intensity. That’s what they want and that’s what they get. As a phone sex Mistress, I enjoy dealing out the pain to these callers and they are eager to receive it.

Ideally, the caller will have a selection of toys to aid in the torture. Nipple clamps (Japanese clover clamps are my favorites, I think), dildos, anal beads, ball stretchers, clothespins with firm springs, sounds, paddles and floggers, just to name a few. There are many more things to use.

I am also adept at teaching you to use every day household items to create the pain if you don’t have the toys mentioned above. For example, clothespins with the firm springs are a household item and very useful indeed. Candles and matches add some fun, as do ice cubes. Toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash are always fun, plus some Ben-Gay or IcyHot. Don’t have a dildo? Well there are vegetables that will suffice, or the handle of a wooden spoon or a plunger. Shoelaces can be used quite creatively in nipple and ball stretching. Workboots (or even athletic shoes) with laces provide marvelous ball weights and more weight can be added by filling them with canned food, bottles of water or soda and the like. A 9 volt battery can add an interesting aspect to the training. A belt can substitute for a paddle or flogger quite nicely. Though I prefer not to use them, many callers prefer to use Q-tips or other household items for urethral penetration instead of purchasing much safer (and more effective) sounds.

Does the idea of all this pain make you wonder if you’d be able to have that great release? No worries. Some callers are so excited at their climax that they shoot the metal sound out and across the room so it hits the wall.

Do I have fun with these trainings? I sure do. And so do my callers. If you’ve ever fantasized about pain fetish training, call me and try it out. Tell me it’s your first time. I’ll start you slowly.

Remember, a good pain fetish training will take time, so call when you have at least 45-60 minutes to devote to it.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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My Hot Erotic Fantasy Caller

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 19:56:20 +0000

Every Mistress has at least one favorite phone sex slut, the guy who just loves phone sex so much and has so much fun with it that it’s a complete pleasure to talk to him. And I certainly have one. Mine loves every erotic fantasy he’s ever tried and is willing to try anything new; they all turn him on. When we first began talking, he loved guided masturbation and sometimes a little tease and denial. Since then, he’s moved into coerced bi, cuckold, voyeurism and some light bondage. He loves it all!

What he loves most is to tell me all about his fantasies and realities. Can you imagine his wife inviting their priest for a sexy dinner? Guess what was for dessert? Yep, you guessed it, cuckolded by the priest. The priest enjoyed having his cock sucked by hubby and then enjoyed the wife, much to hubby’s delight. This was different than their usual scene with her regular boyfriend, but it was so much hotter for my caller because of the priest’s collar, crucifix and other religious trimmings.

After all that, my caller was still excited, so he headed off to the local adult bookstore to find some hot cocks to suck. Not quite finished yet, he took off for the local strip club for some visual stimulation and lap dances. Oh yes, he loves it both ways and doesn’t want to be limited.

You can just imagine how hot and sexy the stories and roleplays are after he’s described these things. Does he actually do these things, or is it fantasy? It doesn’t matter, and I don’t care because it gets him hot and excited and he has a great time. Need we ask for more?

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Hot Erotic Fantasies

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 24 Jun 2010 01:17:01 +0000

Some fantasies are just too hot not to share. One of my favorite callers says he has no limits; any erotic fantasy works for him. Of course, he loves to tell me about them, then have me use those as a take off point for an even hotter fantasy.

Recently, he described a fantasy he had during church service. A beautiful, scantily dressed woman grasped the candle on the altar. She reminded him of an exotic dancer he had seen. He and the other men became very enthusiastic about the service, and excited, too.

As he described the men moving closer to the altar, I began expanding upon the fantasy, weaving a sexy story for him. Before he knew it, the church transformed into a strip club where the woman danced on a gold pole alongside other women, all women who had been at the church service. Every so often “his” woman would leave the pole to dance right in front of him. As she gyrated before him, he held up bills; she squatted down and he stuffed bills into her g-string. Though he started with dollar bills, he soon realized he couldn’t convince her to give him a peek unless he upped the ante She would move between him and other men, teasing for tips. Slowly, he offered her more, with no peek offered. After over $1000 in tips, she gave him an all too brief peek of her g-string, then moved away.

As he looked for her on the stage, he realized that the woman dancing for him was his wife and saw his two college age daughters were also dancing for men, teasing the watching men for tips.

He loved what I did with his fantasy and how much hotter it became along the way.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Ready for an audio made just for you? Contact me for your custom audio. I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you. See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Combining Seduced Bi with Cuckold Fantasies

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 09:47:19 +0000

One of my favorite calls is when I can combine Coerced cock-sucking into a cuckold fantasy. Callers seem to love it too. The cuckolded husband is made to kneel and feel the hardness of his wife’s lover, to get him harder for her. For many callers, that is the biggest turn on.

One of my callers claims he’s never been permitted to join his wife and her lover, but he really wants to do so. In real life he knows his wife has a lover and he has asked her if he can please join them, but she refuses to allow this. So the fantasy he enjoys with me is one in which I play his hot, sexy wife.

I tell him he can’t satisfy me so I’ve found a real man who can. Of course hubby is welcome to watch, but I will not permit him to cry or whimper when he sees how excited and fulfilled I am by my lover. Hubby decides he can handle watching and comes into the bedroom with us. He watches our sexy slow disrobing. Then, I instruct him to get on his knees beside the bed and suck my lover’s cock, getting it hard for me. When he refuses, I order him to leave. Finally, he falls to his knees and begins to suck as I laugh.

I grab my lover and pull him into the bed for some hot sex. Hubby watches and hears my multiple orgasms and realizes I have never had even one orgasm with him. After we’re finished, hubby pleads for the lovely cream pie. Will he get it? Either way, there’s laughter waiting for him.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Ready for an audio made just for you? Contact me about your custom audio. I will write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you. See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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When Cuckold Fantasy Becomes Reality – Part 2

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 22 May 2008 22:39:05 +0000

This concludes the article started in the last post.

For some men, however, that cuckold fantasy becomes reality. Their wife finds a boyfriend who satisfies her sexually and becomes the focus of her attentions. The husband is forced to stand by helplessly as the wife and her boyfriend embark upon their affair. At first the husband might be excluded, as the two solidify their relationship; however, at some point, the couple will want to flaunt their happiness to the husband and the relationship will expand to include the three of them, with the husband in the role of hapless submissive, forced to enjoy and assist in his wife achieving her sexual happiness.

Once the fantasy has become reality, though, there is only so long that the happy wife and boyfriend will continue to include the husband. Eventually, no matter how hard the husband tries, he will likely find himself being slowly excluded, first from the sexual experiences of the wife and her boyfriend, then from the bedroom which he formerly shared with his wife, and possibly from the home and marriage, as the wife realizes it is much simpler and easier to divorce the husband who does not satisfy her and marry the boyfriend who does. As a phone sex Mistress, I have seen this happen in all too many cases.

Is this a hopeless situation? No, not completely. Many times the husband and wife have a very strong and deep love which will carry them through the cuckold experience and find their relationship intact after the boyfriend is gone. In other instances, that love will keep the husband and wife together for many years, even though the wife continues to seek out other men for sexual satisfaction.

Cuckold Fantasies are a niche of BDSM phone sex which I much enjoy. Hope to talk to you soon about your fantasies.

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When Cuckold Fantasy Becomes Reality – Part 1

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 22 May 2008 03:03:49 +0000

For many of my callers, cuckold is a fantasy which excites them and gives them the chance to experience sex via phone in a way they might never be able to experience it in real life. As a phone sex Mistress, it is my job to help create or recreate the cuckold fantasy.

For most, the attraction of the cuckold fantasy arises from feelings of great inferiority. Their cock is too small. They ejaculate prematurely. No matter what they do, they cannot satisfy their wife sexually. They fear that they will lose their wife unless she is being satisfied sexually. Thus, they believe becoming a cuckold might help them stave of what appears to be the inevitable loss of their relationship.

There are numerous elements which might be included in a cuckold fantasy: forced cocksucking or fluffing; being tied up and forced to watch as their wife is fucked and satisfied by a real man; kneeling or standing to watch as their wife is satisfied by the real man and then being forced to eat the resulting cream pie; the laughter of his wife and her boyfriend as he struggles to hump the bed while eating that cream pie.

This article will be concluded in the next post. Be sure to come back and check it out!

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Preparing for Your CBT Session

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 15 Apr 2008 18:48:34 +0000

CBT sessions cannot simply “happen” without a little preparation. Some type of “toy” is needed. Certainly, we can get along with just a few items, but you have to have things. As a phone sex Mistress, I love to get emails or calls from serious CBT callers who want to know what toys and things they should have available for their session.

This tells me that the individual wants a good session and is willing to prepare in advance for it. The advance preparation also helps heighten the anticipation of the caller for the session. As I have discussed before, anticipation is a wonderful element to add to CBT sessions. It takes the session to a higher level than might otherwise happen.

When giving a list of items I wish the caller to have available, there is usually something that intrigues them and makes them wonder to what use it will be put. Sometimes I tell them; sometimes I laugh and tell them to wait and see. Either way, purchasing and gathering all these items in preparation for the session heightens the caller’s anticipation.

As a Mistress, I make use of that anticipation much as theme parks create anticipation in their customers for the various rides. Yes, the CBT session focuses on different peaks than a theme park, but the results are equally successful when the anticipation builds to the ultimate point before the session.

When you’re jonesing for that CBT session, think about how much greater the anticipation will be if you contact your Mistress for information on toys or to schedule an appointment time for your session.

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