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Working with Feminization “Switches”

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 20:22:53 +0000

As any Mistress who has worked with feminization callers for very long realizes, not all feminization callers are submissive. Some are dominant. And a few are switches.

There have been times when I thought a caller was submissive because that’s how he preferred his fantasies with me. Then, suddenly, he would switch and want to be the dominant or aggressive person in the fantasy.

I must admit the first time it happened I was a bit surprised. However, I’m also experienced enough to go with the flow and change the fantasy from one in which my caller was sucking and being fucked to one in which he was being sucked and fucking. One thing I have noticed, though, is that feminization switches tend to prefer cross-dressers or T-girls as the people they are fucking, rather than any gay man.

Working with these feminization switches can be a lot of fun when you are a phone sex Mistress who excels at creating great fantasy scenarios on the fly. I know I sure enjoy them!

Another thing I enjoy doing is recording audio scripts. If you have a special audio script you’d like me to record just for you, let me know. We’ll work out the details of payment and delivery and before you know it you’ll have your very own audio story to enjoy any time you want. I might also be willing to write an audio script based on your idea. So if you have something that really turns you on, but you just can’t write, let me know. I’m a great writer!

Remember: Even if you don’t see me listed as available on the websites, I might be at home and available to talk to you. So, dial 888-232-1467 and you might be in for a very pleasant surprise and a great phone session!

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Having Fun with Cross-Dressing

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 19:32:11 +0000

I talk with lots of cross-dressers as well as other feminization callers. Sometimes the callers are so serious about their dressing and feminization that they don’t seem to be having any fun. However, I have one cross-dresser caller who has an absolutely great time with his cross-dressing.

“Sammi” (not his real name) enjoys cross-dressing. He is not interested in men or sucking cock. However, he loves dressing up as a woman and also enjoys women who cross-dress as men. He has a woman friend who enjoys dressing up as a man on occasion and they’ve had some great times.

For Halloween, Sammi dressed in a beautiful prom-style dress while his date wore a good suit. Sammi used a wig and makeup along with high heels while his date carefully applied a moustache. They went to a costume party and had a great time.

Sammi’s New Year’s Eve outfit was even more fun. He dressed as a gangsters moll while his date dressed as, of course, the gangster. In addition to over the top cheap-looking clothing, overdone hair and makeup, Sammi chewed gum and carried a cigarette in a long holder. His date wore the gangster-style suit, cigar and moustache.

The cross-dressing roleplays I do with Sammi are equally fun. Sometimes I’m “Auntie Dallas” who makes him dress up then introduces him to the “boy” next door (actually a girl dressed as a boy). Sometimes I’m a friend who tricks him into dressing up as a girl.

Most recently, I was a friend who had Sammi visit my lakeside cottage for a weekend because he so needed a break. After shaving him, I had him dress in women’s clothing and he had a great time, particularly at the barbeque, where he wore a sailor’s outfit with deck shoes and his “date” wore man’s clothing.

He has a great time no matter what he does, because he enjoys dressing but it’s not his whole life. Sammi has found the fun side of cross-dressing. That’s a side many cross-dressers don’t find because they take themselves so seriously.

As a phone sex Mistress, I love doing phone sessions with folks who have fun with their feminization. And I love helping them learn to have fun with it!

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Combatting Loneliness in Feminization Callers

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 20:50:29 +0000

One thing I notice with many of my feminization callers is the loneliness they feel much of the time. Those who go out dressed and make friends with people who appreciate their dressing seem to experience fewer bouts of loneliness.

As a phone sex Mistress, I find it very enjoyable to talk with sissies, cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders. They love to please and will go to great lengths to do so. I also find that many are “super-femme” to the point where they see themselves as the final bastion of femininity where slips and corsets are standard items of clothing and slacks and low-heeled shoes are rarely worn. This intense femininity can also tend to segregate them, making them more likely to experience bouts of loneliness.

There are organizations for feminization folks and I usually recommend that my callers “Google” for these groups in their area. They are a source of socialization, community and possible friends for my lonely caller.

Calls with a Mistress are also a great source of combating loneliness, though the effect may be short-lived. LDW Group also offers a free chat room and message board for sissies, cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders. We have a special instructional site, sissyville.com as well.

Most recently, Mistress Scarlett decided to host World Sissy Day on August 16, 2008, as a celebration for all sissies. I’m sure cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders will be welcome as well. Keep your eye on the message board at SissySchool.com and on the Mistresses blogs for more announcements and information as the date draws near. We hope as many as possible will join to celebrate this day. If it’s a big success, Ms. Scarlett just might be convinced to turn it into an annual event.

As part of World Sissy Day celebration, if my feminization callers will contact me, I will be working on special assignments for you to do either that day or sometime during the week before the big celebration.

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CBT Sessions with Feminization Callers

Goddess Dallas — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 21:14:22 +0000

As a phone sex Mistress, I have lots of callers who love CBT, one of my specialties. Feminization callers also call me for CBT sessions. These callers are not usually seeking the same type of CBT training as my usual callers, nor do they want the slow buildup of pain to the ultimate finish that my other CBT callers want.

For most feminization callers, CBT is all about hurting the cock and balls. I sometimes suspect they are hoping for damage so they have a solid medical reason to have them removed. As a Mistress, I am not going to have them doing things that will cause that level of damage, but I can tell that’s what they really want.

Lots of these feminization callers hate their cock and balls. They want to be rid of them but most cannot afford the lengthy and expensive process for sexual reassignment surgery. So they settle for second best, which is causing as much pain to those areas as possible. I have one caller who asked women to knee or kick him in the balls. He reveled in the pain this caused him and enjoyed the residual pain over the next few days.

Still other callers go for other ballbusting techniques: hammering their balls, pressing them between two hard surfaces and pounding on them, slamming them in door jambs. One such caller tied his balls to a friend’s bicycle and had the friend ride off. The caller chased after the bicyclist, screaming in pain and finally did pull the slipknot his friend had insisted upon. This shows you the level of hate such callers have for their genitals.

As a responsible Mistress, I cannot and do not recommend that callers do any of these things without being supervised by a Mistress. Your Mistress will telll you to take the proper precautions to avoid injury. What I have learned about such callers is, if they really want to lose their genitals they will find a way to accomplish that. They are calling me for pain—not for damage. I keep it at that level and do not go beyond.

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Cuckold Fantasy Sessions – Part 1

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 00:14:16 +0000

There are two types of cuckold callers. One wishes his partner were cuckolding him, the other has a partner who is cuckolding him. The differences between the two are very distinct.

I am asked on virtually a daily basis how my feminization or cuckold caller can get his wife or girlfriend to cuckold him. As a Mistress, the best I can offer is to ask questions about my caller’s partner. Most particularly, I need to know if his partner is dominant, if she is sexually aggressive.

In the vast majority of these cases, my caller’s partner is neither dominant nor sexually aggressive. This, in essence, means my caller’s wish to be cuckolded is pretty much doomed. He has managed to find a partner who is at least as submissive as he is, and perhaps even more so.

Calling a phone sex Mistress has been his only outlet for reliving his cuckold fantasy desires. He calls, describing what he wishes his partner would do. The scenarios differ somewhat in the set up, but the end is almost always him watching as his partner has sex with her lover. The lover’s stamina and ability are always greater than his own. His partner reaches heights of satisfaction with her lover that she never reached with him.

Sometimes he is granted permission to fluff the lover, sometimes he is allowed to clean his partner after the lover has climaxed in her. Sometimes his partner tells him she will be moving her lover into the bedroom permanently and my caller will be relegated to the guest bedroom. Again, these specifics vary from caller to caller.

My goal is to make the cuckold fantasy experience as realistic as possible for my callers. For callers who are not in a cuckold relationship and wish they were, this may be their best option for satisfaction.

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Blending Fantasy and Reality in BDSM Fetish Sessions – Part 2

Goddess Dallas — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:05:10 +0000

In the last post I began discussing how BDSM fetish callers can sometimes blend fantasy and reality so well that it is difficult for me, as their Mistress, to discern which is which. A long time feminization caller recently came out with a surprising revelation about his life. It was difficult for me to decide whether it was reality or fantasy.

This information gave me a huge insight into much of what this caller has said in the past. On a number of occasions, he has admitted that certain events to described were fantasies, things he wished had happened. Thinking back on some of those occasions, I asked him about his failure to mention the older brother. In a way, I wondered if perhaps he was now fantasizing an older brother who had been treated to a superior education and been favored by his father while my caller was feminized by his mother. According to my caller, the brother became a lawyer, even though my caller described him as not being smart because he couldn’t do math. He said he had little contact with his brother and no desire for contact.

After careful inquiry, I decided that my caller possibly does have an older brother. If so, it’s likely that he might resent that brother in some way for having been removed from his mother and permitted to develop normally, rather than being feminized by the mother.

If my assumption is correct, it’s likely my caller realized that his brother was being given something special by their father, something my “mommy’s girl” caller would never receive.

The possibility of an older brother is a little light opening into the possibility that my caller may decide to spend less time in his childhood fantasies and more in the reality of life. In the past, he has been unable to take even small steps toward realizing any childhood fantasy. Perhaps this might lead to the first step of turning part of that fantasy into reality. As a phone sex Mistress, I find that to be an intriguing development.

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Not all Feminization Callers are Submissive

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 21:09:38 +0000

As Mistresses, we usually think of Feminization callers as being submissive. While it is true that most of such callers are submissive, that is not always the case. I suspect that in the real world, there are lots more sissies who are not submissive. The submissive sissies tend to call Mistresses more frequently because they seek the training and domination.

I have one feminication caller who is a switch. For the first few years he called me, he was submissive, wanting to suck and be fucked, asking for strapon, etc. Then all of a sudden one day he wanted to be the one doing the fucking rather than being fucked. He became the aggressor seeking out the transvestite/shemale whom he then enjoyed fantasy sex with as I praised his ability to satisfy his partner. For him, the fact that I was present to witness his sexual domination of his partner was an additional turn on.

He switches back and forth, one call being submissive, the next being more dominant. It’s fun to work with, even though I’m never sure what it is he’ll want that day. As a phone sex Mistress, I enjoy the element of surprise as well as the challenge of creating a fantasy roleplay at the spur of the moment. Too frequently, I see the caller ID on my phone and begin mentally preparing for the session, even as I answer. With feminization switches, I have to wait until I hear what they want that day before I can prepare.

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Feminization Callers with Hair Fetish – Part 3

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 05:39:52 +0000

This is a continuation of the discussion in the last two posts. I have a feminization caller with a very strong hair fetish, a fetish so strong it almost overpowers all the rest of his feminization. His hair fetish began when he was very young and his mother took him to the beauty salon with her and had his hair done in a girlie do with roller set. He dreams and fantasizes about this constantly, to the point where reality and fantasy mix together for him.

As his Mistress, I work to incorporate reality into his fantasy. Without that, he is quite ungrounded and the call quickly disintegrates. He enjoys his fantasy world, where he is a hairdresser and spending his time with his hair in rollers doing women’s roller sets. Sometimes that fantasy world threatens his real world of work/employment. So, an injection of reality helps, especially when I remember that much of his fantasy today was reality for him as a child.

He does function, apparently quite well, in his job. But he still longs to go back to when he was a child and find some way he could have gotten his mother and mostly absent father to let him go to beauty school instead of making him attend college. Naturally, he went to college and graduated with great grades. He’s had a successful business career, but still longs for the childhood dream of hair salons. In his calls with me, he is able to go back to the time of childhood as well as move forward in the fantasy with beauty school and, perhaps, even work as a hair stylist.

As a Mistress, I enjoy the challenge of working with both fantasy and reality and combining them into a very successful session.

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Feminization Callers with Hair Fetish – Part 2

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 03:39:09 +0000

In the last post, I began describing one of my hair fetish callers. He the most extreme hair fetishist with whom I have ever worked. While feminization certainly is a component of his fetish, he is primarily concerned with hair. We spend hours talking about and replaying his childhood experiences at the salon. Because this was the time when his fetish was established, it is the time about which he is most eager to speak.

As a phone sex Mistress, I regularly create fantasy roleplays with my callers. It is the fantasy, the mind pictures, that create the excitement, joy, remembrance and/or arousal for my callers. For this particular hair fetish caller, all my fantasies must be created based upon the things that happened to him as a child or things that he wish had happened.

Another interesting component of this hair fetishist is his focus on whether I believe him to be submissive or femme. Actually, because of his intense focus on hair, his other feminine qualities do not come to the forefront of our calls. It has been difficult to get him to accept that being submissive (or a “bottom” as he sometimes calls it) does not mean he is not femme. The two are not mutually exclusive.

As his Mistress, I work to bring as much reality to his fantasy world as possible. He does function, apparently quite well, in his job. But he still longs to go back to when he was a child and find some way he could have gotten his mother and mostly absent father to let him go to beauty school instead of making him attend college. Naturally, he went to college.

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Feminization Callers with Hair Fetish – Part 1

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 20:56:03 +0000

Our Sissy School website brings in lots of feminization callers. Their fetishes are as varied as the callers. However, feminization callers with a strong hair fetish are frequently in a class by themselves.

As a phone sex Mistress, I have spent hours learning a bit more about hair salons in order to be able to provide a realistic-feeling fantasy experience for my callers. With most feminization callers, they have equal interest in hair, makeup, clothing, deportment, sexual training and general fantasy. Hair fetishists, though, are focused almost exclusively on hair and salons, with a very small amount of attention on clothing.

One thing I’ve noticed with my hair fetish callers is that most of them were feminized by female family members who used hair/hair salons as a primary means of feminizing them. One of my callers was taken to the hair salon by his mother from as early a time as he can remember and from about age 5, he had his hair washed and set with rollers every week when his mother had her hair done. She also dressed him in female clothing and he has some focus on bras. However, his primary focus has always been hair—getting his hair done at the salon; the roller set; long hair; near psychological breakdown when his mother abruptly cut him off from the hair salon when as a teenager he got too interested in a male stylist; similar near breakdown when required to get his long hair cut.

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