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How Do You Like Your Tease & Denial?

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 21:38:20 +0000

Let’s get serious here. Do you want your tease & denial sessions slow, sensual, erotic? Fast & furious? Strict? Lots of laughter? Do you like to edge lots of times or just go to the edge once? Are you noisy, loving how your excitement is building and how much you like what I’m doing to you? Are you silent, struggling not to let me or anyone else hear how excited you are?

As a phone sex Mistress, I have tease & denial callers who enjoy all these styles. Some respond to a long slow tease with lots of sensual, sexy talk. Others do better with a long and slow tease with very strict stroking instructions. Those who prefer a short session may not reach the heights of excitement that those who invest in longer sessions reach.

Because tease & denial callers are so very different in their expectations and desires, I create customized sessions for each caller to emphasize what that caller seeks. What I love to do is push my tease and denial subbies as close to the edge as I possibly can and keep them there. Not all callers are at the same level in their tease & denial training, so I focus on working within each caller’s limitations.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

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Preparing for Your CBT Session

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 02:23:01 +0000

OK, once again, it’s time to trot out some basics about getting ready for your CBT session. You need to be ready before you call. What preparations do you need to make?

First, get your toys ready. You don’t need to spend thousands of dollars at the adult superstore for these toys, but you need some things. Nipple clamps, clothes pins, sandpaper, ice cubes, bowl of water and ice, light rope or rawhide laces, a paddle, rubber bands, sterilized sounds (metal medical instruments, not your favorite music), wire brush, pepper juice, any other implements that turn you on. Yes, we can get along with just a few of these items, but the more you have available before you call, the better the call will be. As you gather them, you’ll be thinking about the call, anticipating how I might use the items you’re gathering and you will be even more excited when you call.

Second, take some time to email (or even call me) to ask about your toys or get other information about your session. Schedule a date and time for it. As an experienced phone sex Mistress, I know when I get one of these emails that you are someone who wants a great session and is preparing in advance for it. And, of course, this increases anticipation and your excitement level before the session even starts.

Finally, be sure you set aside enough time for a great session. Put the session on your calendar so you see it there. In my experience, a great CBT session lasts at least 45 minutes and usually longer. If you absolutely cannot set aside that much time, please don’t expect greatness. It takes time to move you up past the various pain thresholds. If you want a shorter session, decrease your expectations exponentially.

As a Mistress, I make use of that anticipation much as theme parks create anticipation in their customers for the various rides. Yes, the CBT session focuses on different peaks than a theme park, but the results are equally successful when the anticipation builds to the ultimate point before the session. These three points will help you build anticipation for your CBT session.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

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Great Cuckold Scenes Require Creation of Maximum Pleasure

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 01:28:09 +0000

As a pro domme/phone sex Mistress, my goal is to create the maximum pleasure for each caller. Each fetish niche requires different techniques to accomplish this goal. So, how do we do this for cuckold fantasy scenes? Naturally, talking with the caller first is necessary so I know his experiences, what he does and doesn’t like, and how best to tailor the scene to increase his pleasure.

As I see it, there are two main types of cuckold fantasy callers: those who have been or are being cuckolded by their wife, and those who wish they were. In order to create the perfect scene, I begin asking questions. Where and how did your wife meet her boyfriend? Were you with her? Did you help her choose the boyfriend? Did you wait at home for the wife to return with her new boyfriend? Once your wife had her boyfriend, did she permit you to participate with them, or are you sent to another room to imagine what they are doing? Or are you left at home while they go to the boyfriend’s home for their affair? Once I have an idea of the caller’s reality or fantasy, I begin to create his cuckold scene.

How the wife teases her boyfriend is something I love to include. Then, the husband watches as the wife and boyfriend begin to tease each other in front of him. The boyfriend is never submissive to the husband and I usually draw him as someone who ignores, laughs at or disregards the husband’s “rights” to his wife. The husband must know he doesn’t count in this cuckold relationship. His needs are not important and he will receive only what his wife (and perhaps the boyfriend) permit him to have.

That, with the description of the sexual scene between the wife and boyfriend typically is more than enough to take my caller over the top and keep him coming back for more. And, of course, I don’t use the same story twice, unless the caller really wants to hear it again.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

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Tease and Denial Fun

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 26 Aug 2010 04:57:36 +0000

When I have a caller who asks for tease and denial, I need information from that caller. The three part question I ask callers at the start of the call: do they want (1) a guaranteed release at the end of the call; (2) a guaranteed denial at the end of the call, or (3) leave it up to me what happens.

Since option 3 gives me the most discretion, how do I decide whether I will permit or deny that release? Lots of factors enter into my decision. How frequently have I spoken with the caller? Is he someone with whom I work regularly, or a first time caller? Has he set a very tight time cutoff for the call? Or is the call time unlimited, or at least long enough to provide a nice long tease time (typically 45-60 minutes or over for me)?

If I have a regular caller on a training schedule, that schedule will dictate whether he is permitted to have a release and, in fact, I won’t even ask him the three part question. We’ve already long since passed that area of information and are into regular training.

With a caller I’m talking with for the first time, the decision is much more subjective and difficult. As a phone sex Mistress I love to hear callers moan and beg as they move up the pleasure scale when stroking. As they get closer to the edge, I expect to hear them begin to ask and then finally beg me to let them cum. The promises they make to me when in such a state are many (and rarely kept). The frantic desperation in their voices, the heavy breathing, the sounds of sexual pleasure approaching the peak are music to my ears.

Those with very short time limits for the call may not have a chance for a release because there just isn’t enough time for me to take them up and down the pleasure scale enough before I decide about the release. They also need to remember that showing pleasure is much more fun for me than those “bite the bullet” types who stroke in silence. So, let me know how much you’re enjoying your call. That’s your best chance of getting a release from me in a tease and denial call.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Do You Have a Kidnap Fantasy?

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 00:21:00 +0000

Many people do. The kidnap fantasy is an integral part of many BDSM fetish calls. As a phone sex Mistress, I have callers with different fetishes who want me to include a kidnap fantasy as part of their fetish call. CBT, bondage, tease and denial/orgasm denial, guided masturbation, feminization, CFNM, giantess and humiliation callers have all enjoyed this fantasy on occasion.

So, what is it about kidnap that so excites these callers? Why do they get so much more excited with the kidnap fantasy than without it? I suspect it has to do with being overpowered by a strong woman; a woman who will control them, make decisions for them. Then of course, fear of the unknown is part of it. They don’t know what the Mistress might do, but they definitely want to find out! This need to be controlled and dominated is why men call Mistresses.

Typically, I first determine my caller’s fetish. Then I ask him questions about any fantasies he might have or what he might be looking for in the call. Once I find out that kidnap is part of his fantasy, I find out just a bit more about how he visualizes it. Then, I create the kidnap to go along with the caller’s fantasy.

There’s no question in my mind that it is the unknown elements that I choose to include in the kidnap fantasy that makes the phone session extra exciting for my caller. Once the caller has been kidnapped and is “tied up” under my control, he experiences that tickle of fear–what will she do to me now?

I have been known to include galleries of women to laugh at CFNM callers, all of them known to him and taking photos with their cell phones. Similarly, I’ve brought in men to provide cocks for sucking and to fuck feminization callers. Sometimes I enjoy a little fun by tying up the caller, then cutting his clothing off with a pair of sharp shears.

These are some of the more obvious ways to inject a little extra terror and excitement into the session. Because ultimately, it’s terror and fear the kidnap fantasy caller seeks. They love it! And I love providing it.

If you’re looking for a great fetish call involving a kidnap fantasy, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and I’ll put together a fantasy that will have you shaking in your boots and loving it!

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HELP ME! I’m Horny NOW!

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 18:49:47 +0000

Ah yes. I hear that cry from my horny little devil. And you know just what you need…A Call with Goddess Dallas.

You check your computer. Oh no! I’m not listed as available on the website? Now what?

Come on. Don’t despair! Have I ever abandoned you in your hour of need? Of course not! You have a direct line to me: 888-232-1467. And I answer it when I’m home, even if I’m not signed on the websites as available.

So, even when I’m busy getting naughty with my toys, I always have time to tease that cock. When I’m home, you’ll immediately hear my sexy voice that I know reaches straight to my cock on the other end of the line.

I am The High Goddess in the areas of tease & denial, cuckolding, forced bi, cock & ball torture, bondage, and all areas of feminization and BDSM fetish. So, call me the next time that cock aches at 888-232-1467 and I’ll help reduce those horns!

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Small Penis Guys and their Problems

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:59:20 +0000

Let’s face it, guys with teensie tinsie little dickies (aka “small penis”) have lots of problems. As a phone sex Mistress, I speak with lots of callers who have very small dicks. The stories they tell are rife with humiliating events beginning at a young age and continuing to the present time.

One caller tells of being surrounded by the other boys in his gym class and teased and laughed at for his very tiny equipment, ending with all of the horny 13 year olds wanking all over him. While this is a bit more extreme that the humiliation reported by most callers, it is a primary place for these little dicked guys to be humiliated.

As they begin to mature, the problems become even worse. Whether they’re attracted to women or men, they have great difficulty finding anyone to form a relationship with. Women don’t want guys with tiny little dicks. Of course, if he is a multi-millionaire and is willing to spend lots of money on the clothes, houses, cars, trips and his wife’s studs, he just might find someone to marry him. Absent that, he’s likely to be laughed at and walked out on during dates. If a woman does decide to marry him, it’s not likely to be long before she finds a lover who can take care of her sexual needs.

For the small dicked guy who is attracted to men, the problem is possibly even more difficult. Gay guys are not known for wanting small dicked lovers, even submissive lovers. Most gay guys do not want a lover who cross-dresses or is a sissy. They are attracted to men, not women. Thus, the feminized small dicked guy is of little interest to most gay guys.

Certainly, there are exceptions which prove this rule for gays, just as there are for the straight guys. Sometimes older gay men, or those with strong BDSM fetishes, might seek a small dicked submissive man for a relationship. However, as with the straight guys (who need to be multi-millionaires to have their arm candy), there is a very small group of possibilities.

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Blending Fantasy and Reality in BDSM Fetish Sessions – Part 2

Goddess Dallas — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:05:10 +0000

In the last post I began discussing how BDSM fetish callers can sometimes blend fantasy and reality so well that it is difficult for me, as their Mistress, to discern which is which. A long time feminization caller recently came out with a surprising revelation about his life. It was difficult for me to decide whether it was reality or fantasy.

This information gave me a huge insight into much of what this caller has said in the past. On a number of occasions, he has admitted that certain events to described were fantasies, things he wished had happened. Thinking back on some of those occasions, I asked him about his failure to mention the older brother. In a way, I wondered if perhaps he was now fantasizing an older brother who had been treated to a superior education and been favored by his father while my caller was feminized by his mother. According to my caller, the brother became a lawyer, even though my caller described him as not being smart because he couldn’t do math. He said he had little contact with his brother and no desire for contact.

After careful inquiry, I decided that my caller possibly does have an older brother. If so, it’s likely that he might resent that brother in some way for having been removed from his mother and permitted to develop normally, rather than being feminized by the mother.

If my assumption is correct, it’s likely my caller realized that his brother was being given something special by their father, something my “mommy’s girl” caller would never receive.

The possibility of an older brother is a little light opening into the possibility that my caller may decide to spend less time in his childhood fantasies and more in the reality of life. In the past, he has been unable to take even small steps toward realizing any childhood fantasy. Perhaps this might lead to the first step of turning part of that fantasy into reality. As a phone sex Mistress, I find that to be an intriguing development.

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Blending Fantasy and Reality in BDSM Fetish Sessions – Part 1

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 18:12:33 +0000

As a phone sex Mistress, I have long noted the existence of both fantasy and reality in what callers relate to me during their BDSM fetish sessions. Some believe it is important that I believe what they tell me is fantasy, with no basis in reality. Others believe it is important that I believe what they tell me is reality. Still others blend fantasy and reality so easily that it becomes difficult to discern which is which.

The longer I spend speaking with a caller, the more times I speak with him, the more likely I am to be able to identify the elements of fantasy and reality in what my caller tells me. Once in a while, though, a caller will surprise me with a piece of information that runs so opposite to everything he’s said before that I have difficulty determining if it is reality or fantasy.

Recently one of my long-time feminization callers let it slip that he has an older brother. This came as a complete surprise since every story of his childhood (featuring feminization by his mother from an early age) featured him and his mother, with his father busy traveling the world as a respected scientist. Never once was there mention of an older brother. Even his summer vacations to visit relatives didn’t mention a brother. According to him the brother was sent to boarding school when my caller was 8 years old and was never home after that, being sent to camps during the summer.

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What Does a Mistress Owe to Her Callers? – Part 2

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 22 Jun 2008 12:50:40 +0000

I began discussing this subject in my last post because I believe that if I, as a phone sex Mistress, focus on what I owe to my BDSM fetish callers, I will be able to create a great fetish fantasy session for them.

First, of course, I discussed giving my caller my undivided attention, to the exclusion of other interruptions except for true emergencies.

Next, I must listen to my caller. He has chosen to call a femdom for a reason. What he is telling me is important. I need to hear and absorb it. Sometimes I note a few phrases or items on my scratchpad to use later as reminders.

Not only do I listen to the words, but I listen to the voice. Is it tentative? Nervous? Hesitant? Soft? Confident? Is my caller stuttering because he cannot answer my questions? I want to put my caller at ease so I can talk to him about the information I need from him.

I like to start with a few simple questions such as, how are you, describe yourself. These are easy questions for him to answer and I like to use them to break the ice. With a very nervous caller, I keep things very simple for a long time, chatting in more general terms to put him at ease. I owe him the feeling that he can relax and trust me and sometimes general chatting does that far better than moving directly into his fetish. I have found on more than one occasion that by easing slowly into talk about his reason for calling, a caller gives me far more information than if I don’t give him that opportunity. In addition, some callers say they are calling about one particular fetish, but they have a secret that may not have a lot to do with that fetish at all. They want to find someone who listens, who demonstrates compassion and understanding. Then their secret comes out.

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