I like to use the lighter areas of CBT as the “tease.”   This includes pinching and clamping the nipples, spanking, and tying up the balls.  These all move the tease along and, when a bit of body stroking is worked in with it, the nerve endings start to get very excited.

Because both focus on the stimulation of nerve endings, CBT and T&D are a great combination.  Like T&D callers, most CBT callers hope to be given permission to cum toward the end of their call.  Neither type of caller is guaranteed a release.  When I combine both techniques in one session, my caller is not permitted a release unless/until I give him my permission.  While this eliminates use of one of my very favorite severe pain techniques, because that technique requires a release, it’s also OK because many callers who like to combine these two techniques aren’t quite that far along the pain threshold anyway.  For those who are, I like to deny the caller over and over and then use that pain technique when I finally permit the release.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

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As a phone sex Mistress, I have tease & denial callers who enjoy all these styles.  Some respond to a long slow tease with lots of sensual, sexy talk.  Others do better with a long and slow tease with very strict stroking instructions.  Those who prefer a short session may not reach the heights of excitement that those who invest in longer sessions reach.

Because tease & denial callers are so very different in their expectations and desires, I create customized sessions for each caller to emphasize what that caller seeks.   What I love to do is push my tease and denial subbies as close to the edge as I possibly can and keep them there.  Not all callers are at the same level in their tease & denial training, so I focus on working within each caller’s limitations.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

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Traditionally, sexual contact does not occur between a professional dominatrix and her clients.  She does not touch their genitals and does not permit them to touch her.  Humiliation and degradation, rather than sexual excitement, is the goal of the submissive who works with a professional dominatrix.   Since laws in most states would consider sexual contact of any sort to be prostitution, a professional dominatrix is careful to avoid even the semblance of sexual contact.

With phone sex Mistress services and the internet, professional dominatrices have expanded their trainings to include sexuality in certain areas.  Tease and denial, forced bi, cuckold fantasy and strapon fetishes all have a very strong sexual aspect.  Because the trainings occur over the phone, rather than in person, prostitution laws are not an issue.  Submissives now have a new, less expensive, outlet to seek out the humiliation and degradation they want along with a sexual release.

I decided to spend time discussing the differences because they are key to the type of trainings a phone sex Mistress is likely to prefer.  I am a professional dominatrix; I do not have or want a submissive living with me, needing constant attention; I suspect that is true for any professional dominatrix.  A lifestyle dominatrix wants and needs that submissive in her life.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

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The other day I had a caller on the line.  He said, with a big sigh, that he guessed he wanted some guided masturbation.  It sounded to me almost like he was preparing for yet another boring guided masturbation session, but didn’t know what else he might do.  After chatting briefly, I took a chance and asked him if he’d like to do a little erotic experiment with me.  He was a little doubtful, but I convinced him to give it a try.  (That’s part of what a phone sex Mistress can and should do for her callers.)

He’d already told me he was more interested in sensual sessions than in strict.  So, I set the scene.  We’ve just gotten in from our fifth date.  We haven’t had sex yet, but it seems like this just might be the night it happens.  After kissing and cuddling on the sofa, I lead him into the bedroom and gently remove his clothing.  I slide my clothing off slowly, leaving lingerie on.  He’s waiting in bed, on his back.

I open a drawer and pull out a pile of scarves.  After placing them on the bedside table, I straddle him, take his right hand and gently wrap a silk scarf around the wrist, then tie it to the headboard.  I do the same with the left wrist.  I then turn around and do the same with both ankles.  By this time he was panting and very excited.  Facing him again, I stroke his face lightly with my hands, then tie a scarf over his eyes.  Nothing is abrupt, everything is slow and sensual, accompanied by lots of stroking and a few kisses.  His soft moans told me he was having a good time now.

Then I began the sensual stroking, first with a feather, then with a silk scarf, then my fingernails, and mink gloves.  Finally, I began stroking him and teasing him with my hands and breasts.  His breathing became erratic and his moans got much louder until he yelled loudly as he exploded for me.

As we chatted briefly before saying goodbye, he told me he never touched himself at all because he was waiting for me to tell him to do so.  I never did and he was surprised that he came just by imagining the feel of all that I was doing to him.  I can tell you that I was one very happy phone sex Mistress and he was an extremely happy caller—one who now loves sensual bondage as well as guided masturbation.

If you’ve been feeling a little bored with your same old phone sex sessions, perhaps it’s time for you to take a tiny step outside the box and enjoy some sensual bondage.  Sound like fun?  Then call me at 888-232-1467.  That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so.  I want to create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

Have you ever looked at all the wonderful Mistresses available and thought, “How can I ever pick the right one?”  Well, we have a solution for you!  Mistress Cecilia will conduct a special “tour” of LDW just for you.  She will answer your questions, get information from you about what you’re seeking, and help you select the perfect Mistress for you.  Check out http://www.communitykink.com/community_kink_tour.html for more info!

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Fancy sounding title, huh?  Well, it’s actually the result of me thinking of one of my callers.  He loves phone sex, is submissive and if he has limits with regard to the various fetishes, I haven’t found them yet.  To a phone sex Mistress, he is a dream caller—the guy who calls, chats for a bit and then no matter what direction I take the call, he’s thrilled and has a great time.

One of his favorite fantasies involves church and religion.  He loves to imagine what might happen if a beautiful woman displayed herself on the altar and a stern Dominatrix then ordered the men to pleasure her  in various ways.  He enjoys fantasizing about his college age daughter in such a situation.  I’ve created some very sensual, sexy scenes for him, complete with altar boys, priests and candles.

Another of his fantasies involves his wife, daughter and college age son all working in a strip/sex club, with all of them on stage pleasuring men at the same time.  Then my caller joins them to pleasure a few men himself.

Are these fantasies incest, something I won’t work with?  Not really.  They may have some incestuous aspects because of the family relationships.  However, they are much more accurately voyeurism and fetishism because my caller is primarily looking/peeping and there is no sexual contact among family members.  Even when he is participating on stage, his contact is with strangers, not other family members.

Are these unusual fantasies?  Yes, I suppose they are.  However, they are part and parcel with my caller’s very catholic embrace of all fetishes.  He has gone, in not quite six years, from tease and denial to forced bi, to voluntary bi, to cuckold, to bondage and beyond.  And he has set up a special altar with my photo, candles and a crucifix and prays to me—very sweet prayers to his Goddess of All Cocks.  And, when he is “bad” and does something he knows is wrong, he confesses to me and does his penance.    Sacrilegious?  Yes, I suppose it is.  But I must admit it’s a lot of fun!

Looking for a bit more unusual fantasy for your fetish?  Then call me at 888-232-1467.  That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so.  Give me a call and let me create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

Have you ever looked at all the wonderful Mistresses available and thought, “How can I ever pick the right one?”  Well, we have a solution for you!  Mistress Cecilia will conduct a special “tour” of LDW just for you.  She will answer your questions, get information from you about what you’re seeking, and help you select the perfect Mistress for you.  Check out http://www.communitykink.com/community_kink_tour.html for more info!

Hey there.  You can follow me on Twitter.  Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas.  I look forward to many happy tweets with you!

For those of you who might like to read info on your favorite fetishes and Mistresses, go to www.weeklystroker.com and subscribe to the newsletter.  My Q&A responses will be in the newsletter on October 5.

If you’re wondering when hosted chats, radio shows, partyline events or any special parties will be happening, we now have ONE PLACE where you can get all that info.  Go to www.themistressshow.com and you’ll get the current info.

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I do enjoy calls with cocksuckers—both forced bi- and otherwise.  Recently, one of my cocksuckers wanted special scenes and locations for his calls.  He was looking for locations where he would feel a bit more frightened.  The Rock Store in Malibu, combined with a biker gang (no, the gangs don’t hang out there!), gave him a little extra kick.  Rough, tough and not particularly clean bikers with lots of weapons gave him a jolt, as did the late arrival of his ex-girlfriend, her husband and her best friend.  So did the County Jail during his next call, where he became a total slut for the other inmates and guards!  Of course, I arrived to bail him out just as the others were planning some cutting and physical damage to him.  What a great time he had—and what fun I had creating those scenes.  

Domination isn’t just yelling, pain, bondage or being very strict with a caller.  It’s actually about getting into the caller’s mind; creating a situation where that caller feels the control even when he’s not on the call with you.  I have several callers experiencing my very special form of domination.  One secretly enjoys wearing women’s clothing but wants to be dominated.  A stroker boy loves being challenged over and over and doing the daily assignments I give him.  My leather bondage boy thinks of me every time he sees leather!  And my pain slut remembers me as he feels the bruises and other evidence of our sessions.

When you’re ready for a great Mistress to take you to the next level, call me at 888-232-1467 and tell me what you’re looking for.  It takes time to create that special relationship, but once we do it, you’ll be very happy.

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He has been on a “no stroking” instruction for several weeks in between our sessions.  So I decided to create a very sexy, sensual tease, but not let him stroke at all during the tease.  I described a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his.  She comes into her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, begins to stroke herself and eventually masturbates.  Then her husband comes home, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they have sex.

Remember, now, my caller was on a “no stroking” instruction during this entire scene.  As I progressed with the story, he told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.”  Our call went well over an hour.  By the end he was panting and trembling as much as if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time.  He had not touched himself.  His ability to visualize that scene created the excitement for him.  He had not cum, although he was very close to cumming.  

During and after the fantasy story I reminded him that he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, to kiss, to make love to.  If anything, those reminders got him even more excited.  At the end of the call, I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call.  He was still “hard as a rock,” breathing heavily and very excited.

This particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills.  That let me create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to drive him to the edge and keep him there, panting and moaning, without his ever touching himself.

If you’re looking for a way to have increase your own fun, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and tell me you’d like to try a little stroke-free tease and denial scene.  Once you’ve tried it, you just might never go back!

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I suppose every Mistress has her own favorite ways of edging a caller.  Some have the caller go straight for the cock, stroking it throughout the call.  Others include the balls in the stroking as well.  Some start with very fast strokes to get to the edge quickly, then vary the speed to keep the caller edging again and again.  Others start with slow strokes and increase the speed slowly until the caller gets to the edge, then moves the caller back and forth to the edge.  All these techniques work.

I, however, prefer to take a different approach.  I use the entire body as the sex organ, instructing my caller to stroke various areas, building excitement before I ever permit him to touch the cock.  This lets lots of nerve endings in the body participate in the excitement and creates much higher levels of excitement than the other techniques.  

Once I permit my caller to stroke his cock and balls, he usually reaches the edge pretty quickly.  All those other nerve endings have created so much excitement, it doesn’t take much at all to reach the edge.  Then comes the fun!  I have him edge closer and closer to the edge without going over it.  I have lots of fun keeping my caller at the edge for a bit before slowing him down and giving him a brief respite.  

Especially with tease and denial callers, I love to keep them at the edge, stroking steadily, then have them increase the speed just a bit to edge even closer.  It put them much closer to the edge than the usually get and really pushes their limits.  Naturally, I am also teasing him with my voice and creating fantasies to help him enjoy his session even more.  After all, as a phone sex Mistress, that’s a big part of what I do to make the sessions unique for each caller.

When you’re ready for a great edging call and want to be pushed to your limits, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and we’ll have a great time getting you as far as you can go!

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So, what is it about kidnap that so excites these callers?  Why do they get so much more excited with the kidnap fantasy than without it?  I suspect it has to do with being overpowered by a strong woman; a woman who will control them, make decisions for them.  Then of course, fear of the unknown is part of it.  They don’t know what the Mistress might do, but they definitely want to find out!   This need to be controlled and dominated is why men call Mistresses.  

Typically, I first determine my caller’s fetish.  Then I ask him questions about any fantasies he might have or what he might be looking for in the call.  Once I find out that kidnap is part of his fantasy, I find out just a bit more about how he visualizes it.  Then, I create the kidnap to go along with the caller’s fantasy.  

There’s no question in my mind that it is the unknown elements that I choose to include in the kidnap fantasy that makes the phone session extra exciting for my caller.  Once the caller has been kidnapped and is “tied up” under my control, he experiences that tickle of fear–what will she do to me now?  

I have been known to include galleries of women to laugh at CFNM callers, all of them known to him and taking photos with their cell phones.  Similarly, I’ve brought in men to provide cocks for sucking and to fuck feminization callers.  Sometimes I enjoy a little fun by tying up the caller, then cutting his clothing off with a pair of sharp shears.  

These are some of the more obvious ways to inject a little extra terror and excitement into the session.  Because ultimately, it’s terror and fear the kidnap fantasy caller seeks.  They love it!  And I love providing it.

If you’re looking for a great fetish call involving a kidnap fantasy, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and I’ll put together a fantasy that will have you shaking in your boots and loving it!

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