I like to use the lighter areas of CBT as the “tease.”   This includes pinching and clamping the nipples, spanking, and tying up the balls.  These all move the tease along and, when a bit of body stroking is worked in with it, the nerve endings start to get very excited.

Because both focus on the stimulation of nerve endings, CBT and T&D are a great combination.  Like T&D callers, most CBT callers hope to be given permission to cum toward the end of their call.  Neither type of caller is guaranteed a release.  When I combine both techniques in one session, my caller is not permitted a release unless/until I give him my permission.  While this eliminates use of one of my very favorite severe pain techniques, because that technique requires a release, it’s also OK because many callers who like to combine these two techniques aren’t quite that far along the pain threshold anyway.  For those who are, I like to deny the caller over and over and then use that pain technique when I finally permit the release.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

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There are all levels of CBT, starting with light spanking and pinching and moving up the scale to extreme torture techniques that the caller will feel for a week or longer after the session.  So where, on that scale, is my caller right now?  I use questions to find out what my caller has done before, what he has enjoyed and what didn’t work.  Of course, I ask what “toys” he has for us to use.

Once I determine what they’ve done before, and learn that it left them unsatisfied, I can have them supplement their “toy” supply with household items.  By then I have decided the starting and ending point of the pain scale we’ll be traveling that day.

It’s important to start at the right place for the caller.  Anything else will likely cause a caller to end the call early and be unsatisfied.  Too light or too heavy, neither will give my caller any confidence in me.

As I start the session, I move steadily up the pain scale I’ve decided upon.  I check their status with them regularly.  This is especially necessary with a caller who’s new to me or with whom I’ve done just a couple of trainings.  I want to be sure I don’t over- or under-estimate their pain threshold. With my regular CBT callers, I don’t need to ask—I know where their threshold is and how far to push them.

This is my recipe for a great CBT training.  For all you aficionados, give me a call and find out what you’ve been missing.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

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With phone sessions, the culmination of the session is for the caller to have an orgasm.  While it may seem unusual to experience pain in order to achieve pleasure, callers who love CBT need pain in order to achieve the most pleasurable orgasm.

When working with a CBT fetishist who also wishes to experience humiliation, I get the caller to admit to me that he needs me to order him to torture himself in order to achieve a great orgasm.  I make him admit that he knows most people do not need pain in order to achieve orgasms and that he has hidden his desire for pain for years.  He has to tell me how afraid he is to tell his spouse or girlfriend about this perversion or how afraid he is to try to develop a relationship with any woman for fear she might find out and not understand.

This caller wants the Mistress to torture him so he can achieve with her what he cannot achieve in his regular life—a wonderful orgasm.  He is unable on his own, or with his partner, to reach orgasm, something that the majority of men he meets do easily.  So, he picks up the phone and calls a Mistress, someone he has never met, never will meet, and pays her to torture him into the glorious orgasm he so loves.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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He used sandpaper and a wire scrub brush with glee, and laughed even more when I had him rub Icy-Hot on the raw areas.  Bouncing on a plunger resulted in lots of giggles and a promise to buy a suction cup dildo (at least 10”) for next time.  I had him tie his balls and put the other end of the rope on the doorknob of an open door.  He stood back so the rope was no longer slack and then slammed the door.  He screamed in pain even as he begged for more, then chuckled as I permitted him to do it over and over.  He promised to get his sounds sterilized before our next session so we can play with them.  He can hardly wait to slide a sound inside and then hold a candle to the metal end, heating it up.   How long will he be able to last?

Do you love CBT?  How about ball busting?  Or are you more into cuckold fantasies, coerced bi or tease and denial?  I’m great at all these sessions and would love to play with you.  If you wonder if you’re ready for a session with me, email me.  Tell me what kind of session you’d love and what toys you have for us to enjoy.  I check my email regularly and will get back to you as soon as I can.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Ready for an audio made just for you?  Contact me about your custom audio.  I will write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

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For most forced bi callers, the idea of being forced to submit to another man is more than sufficient to feed their fantasy.  For a few, though, they want a scarier, more brutal scene than even the occasional group scene I create for my callers.  As a phone sex Mistress, I have the ability to do both more sensual and more brutal sessions, a definite advantage for my callers.

The brutal scene might include only one man, or a group.  It could take place in a hotel room or a prison cell or pretty much anywhere else I come up with.  When it comes to brutality, the location is less important than the action.  Beating and whipping are deriguerre in brutality.  I sometimes add various types of bondage.  Blood flowing from mouth and anus as  results of the roughness, size or desire of the partner to injure the forced bi guy is another aspect of brutality that works well for some callers.

I’m able to do great forced bi calls whether my caller wants a more sensual fantasy or a much more brutal one.  No matter what style of forced bi fantasy you seek, give me a call at 888-232-1467 for a great time.

I need your help.  I just took over the blog www.fetishphonesexguide.com and nothing much had been done on it before this.  I have two fetishes covered so far and many more to do.  Please let me know if you have a particular fetish you’d like to see me cover.  I am filling the fetish pages in no particular order, so you have a chance now to get YOUR favorite fetish toward the top of the list of ones I work on now.

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Lots of you who plan to call for a CBT session with me want to know, “What should I have available when I call you?”  I’ve mentioned these items before in my blog as well as in emails to those of you who have asked in the past.  As a phone sex Mistress, I realize you don’t always have a chance to look back in my blog archives for the list.  So, let’s review that list again.

• Clothespins – 30 to 40
• Shoelaces or rawhide bootlace
• Toothbrush
• Toothpaste
• Mouthwash
• IcyHot or BenGay
• Sandpaper
• Nipple clamps
• Candles (long taper style)
• Matches or lighter
• Wooden paddle (wooden cooking spoon will work)
• Leather belt
• Shoes with laces in or work or hiking boots with laces in
• Bowl with ice cubes (NOT crushed ice)
• Bowl with water and ice
• 4 cans of vegetables or broth
• 2 bottles of water
• Metal sounds, properly sterilized
• Plunger with long handle
• Condoms
• Dildo

This list will do for those of you who enjoy CBT but don’t go to the point of creating additional equipment for yourself.  If you do, by all means, bring your extra equipment!

And, before I get tons of questions, no, you do not have to have everything on the list before you call.  However, you do need to have most of it if you want a really great session.  In addition, make sure you have a private place for your session where you won’t be overheard or interrupted.

All ready now?  Call me at 888-232-1467 and I’ll create a great CBT session for you that you’ll remember for a long time.  Remember, this is my direct dial number and you will reach me directly on it!

I’m starting to get excited about my Mistress interview on Tuesday with Ms. Tia.  It starts at 8 p.m. Eastern at www.provacatalk.com.  Click on the ad at the right to get there!  If you’re very lucky, Ms. Tia might even let you ask me a question of your own.

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Until next time,

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Mistress Tia has some big plans for 09-09-09.  In honor of the day, she is planning to offer 9 Mistresses each doing a 99 minute Cock Radio show.  Plus, the first nine visitors in the chat room will be entered into a drawing for a free 99 minute call!  So, check the schedule of special events or contact Mistress Tia to be sure you get a chance to win that great call!  Just the perfect length for a really good CBT or ballbusting call.

As summer is over and people are finished with vacations and are getting back to work, I am getting much busier.  Some of you may have missed out on talking to me because I was on a call with someone else when you tried.  There’s a great way for you to be sure you get to talk to me, your phone sex Mistress extraordinaire.  Email me and schedule an appointment.  I will hold your scheduled time for 5 minutes before taking another call, so you have a little “fudge factor” there.  Click on my photo on your favorite website to pull up my email address.  Then get ready to call me at 888-232-1467 and have a great time!

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CBT, or cock and ball torture, involves creating increasing levels of pain for the caller.  I like to start out with light pain and add layers of techniques to increase the pain to whatever level the caller can handle and perhaps a tiny bit beyond that.  After all, pushing these callers further than they’ve been before is certainly part of the allure of CBT.

But, I hear you saying, doesn’t CBT include ballbusting by definition.  No, my friends, it does not.  Ballbusting focuses exclusively on the balls.  It goes much further than any ball torture that’s part of CBT might go.

In a CBT session I like to start with a hard spanking.  Then I follow that with bringing pain to nipples.  Thereafter, depending on how hard the cock is, I focus on bringing increasing levels of pain to cock and balls.  Refer to earlier posts for the type of toys you should have available for CBT sessions.  I like to have a wide selection to choose from, even if I don’t always use all of them.

In ballbusting sessions, callers have different things they really love.  Some have another person there to kick or knee them in the balls and that’s sometimes all they really want.  It’s the humiliation of another person putting them down in this way that attracts them.  Typically, they like to have a woman there doing this, but if they can’t find another person to do it, they set up something that they can run into to create the same feeling.

Other ballbusting callers like smashing their balls with hammers or meat tenderizers, sometimes first placing the balls on a hard surface to insure a better smack on the balls.  Some love to take skewers (I prefer that they use metal ones to avoid splinters) and hammer or shove them through the sac.  Most like to put the skewers close to, but not through the balls.  Others want them going right through the balls.  These sessions are not for the faint of heart!  I typically make callers beg very hard before letting them put skewers (or anything else) through their balls or even hammer them hard.  These things can damage the balls.  While that’s what these callers want, I’m not going to simply order them to do so without them begging and pleading long and hard for it.

In fact, the difference between pain (and sometimes a lot of it) and damage may define the difference between CBT and ballbusting.  In CBT I enjoy causing pain, especially when that pain might last for a few days, reminding them each time they feel it of our session.  In ballbusting, I am careful to make the caller insist upon damaging himself before I say he may do so.

So, if you’re into pain sessions, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and let’s see what happens.  I typically work with my pain-loving callers on a regular basis, getting to know them and their tolerances better each time.  Be sure you have your “toys” with you when you call and do set aside at least 30 minutes for your first session.  We might not go that long, but that will allow me to see your limits.  Later sessions may well last an hour or longer, so be prepared for that.  If you know or suspect that your wife, girlfriend or roommate is returning soon, or that an important call is coming in shortly, don’t call for your CBT session.  Wait until you know you’ll have plenty of time alone so you can enjoy the session without concern about interruptions.

Goddess Dallas – call 888-232-1467 for sessions