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Combatting Loneliness in Feminization Callers

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 20:50:29 +0000

One thing I notice with many of my feminization callers is the loneliness they feel much of the time. Those who go out dressed and make friends with people who appreciate their dressing seem to experience fewer bouts of loneliness.

As a phone sex Mistress, I find it very enjoyable to talk with sissies, cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders. They love to please and will go to great lengths to do so. I also find that many are “super-femme” to the point where they see themselves as the final bastion of femininity where slips and corsets are standard items of clothing and slacks and low-heeled shoes are rarely worn. This intense femininity can also tend to segregate them, making them more likely to experience bouts of loneliness.

There are organizations for feminization folks and I usually recommend that my callers “Google” for these groups in their area. They are a source of socialization, community and possible friends for my lonely caller.

Calls with a Mistress are also a great source of combating loneliness, though the effect may be short-lived. LDW Group also offers a free chat room and message board for sissies, cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders. We have a special instructional site, sissyville.com as well.

Most recently, Mistress Scarlett decided to host World Sissy Day on August 16, 2008, as a celebration for all sissies. I’m sure cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders will be welcome as well. Keep your eye on the message board at SissySchool.com and on the Mistresses blogs for more announcements and information as the date draws near. We hope as many as possible will join to celebrate this day. If it’s a big success, Ms. Scarlett just might be convinced to turn it into an annual event.

As part of World Sissy Day celebration, if my feminization callers will contact me, I will be working on special assignments for you to do either that day or sometime during the week before the big celebration.

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Feminization Callers with Hair Fetish – Part 3

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 05:39:52 +0000

This is a continuation of the discussion in the last two posts. I have a feminization caller with a very strong hair fetish, a fetish so strong it almost overpowers all the rest of his feminization. His hair fetish began when he was very young and his mother took him to the beauty salon with her and had his hair done in a girlie do with roller set. He dreams and fantasizes about this constantly, to the point where reality and fantasy mix together for him.

As his Mistress, I work to incorporate reality into his fantasy. Without that, he is quite ungrounded and the call quickly disintegrates. He enjoys his fantasy world, where he is a hairdresser and spending his time with his hair in rollers doing women’s roller sets. Sometimes that fantasy world threatens his real world of work/employment. So, an injection of reality helps, especially when I remember that much of his fantasy today was reality for him as a child.

He does function, apparently quite well, in his job. But he still longs to go back to when he was a child and find some way he could have gotten his mother and mostly absent father to let him go to beauty school instead of making him attend college. Naturally, he went to college and graduated with great grades. He’s had a successful business career, but still longs for the childhood dream of hair salons. In his calls with me, he is able to go back to the time of childhood as well as move forward in the fantasy with beauty school and, perhaps, even work as a hair stylist.

As a Mistress, I enjoy the challenge of working with both fantasy and reality and combining them into a very successful session.

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Feminization Callers with Hair Fetish – Part 2

Goddess Dallas — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 03:39:09 +0000

In the last post, I began describing one of my hair fetish callers. He the most extreme hair fetishist with whom I have ever worked. While feminization certainly is a component of his fetish, he is primarily concerned with hair. We spend hours talking about and replaying his childhood experiences at the salon. Because this was the time when his fetish was established, it is the time about which he is most eager to speak.

As a phone sex Mistress, I regularly create fantasy roleplays with my callers. It is the fantasy, the mind pictures, that create the excitement, joy, remembrance and/or arousal for my callers. For this particular hair fetish caller, all my fantasies must be created based upon the things that happened to him as a child or things that he wish had happened.

Another interesting component of this hair fetishist is his focus on whether I believe him to be submissive or femme. Actually, because of his intense focus on hair, his other feminine qualities do not come to the forefront of our calls. It has been difficult to get him to accept that being submissive (or a “bottom” as he sometimes calls it) does not mean he is not femme. The two are not mutually exclusive.

As his Mistress, I work to bring as much reality to his fantasy world as possible. He does function, apparently quite well, in his job. But he still longs to go back to when he was a child and find some way he could have gotten his mother and mostly absent father to let him go to beauty school instead of making him attend college. Naturally, he went to college.

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Feminization Callers with Hair Fetish – Part 1

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 20:56:03 +0000

Our Sissy School website brings in lots of feminization callers. Their fetishes are as varied as the callers. However, feminization callers with a strong hair fetish are frequently in a class by themselves.

As a phone sex Mistress, I have spent hours learning a bit more about hair salons in order to be able to provide a realistic-feeling fantasy experience for my callers. With most feminization callers, they have equal interest in hair, makeup, clothing, deportment, sexual training and general fantasy. Hair fetishists, though, are focused almost exclusively on hair and salons, with a very small amount of attention on clothing.

One thing I’ve noticed with my hair fetish callers is that most of them were feminized by female family members who used hair/hair salons as a primary means of feminizing them. One of my callers was taken to the hair salon by his mother from as early a time as he can remember and from about age 5, he had his hair washed and set with rollers every week when his mother had her hair done. She also dressed him in female clothing and he has some focus on bras. However, his primary focus has always been hair—getting his hair done at the salon; the roller set; long hair; near psychological breakdown when his mother abruptly cut him off from the hair salon when as a teenager he got too interested in a male stylist; similar near breakdown when required to get his long hair cut.

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Hair Fetish in Feminization

admin — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 11:44:20 +0000

As a phone sex Mistress who speaks with lots of callers who are involved in one of the feminization fetishes, I have found a number who also have a hair fetish. Usually, this hair fetish involves going to the hair salon for styling and other hair care services. Sometimes it also involves a real affinity for rollers or curlers being used in the hair.

It’s easy to understand the attraction of a hair salon to feminization callers. After all, frequently the stylists are female, many of the clients are female, and the scents of shampoo, conditional, color solution and permanent solution certainly resemble smells associated with women. There is also something so feminine in going to a salon to get your hair done.

I have one caller who was taken to hair salons from the time he was a small child. His mother let him grow his hair very long and paid for him to have his hair “roller set.” The “roller set” is something that still drives him, even though he can only put rollers in his hair when he travels on business trips or can sneak into salons for appointments.

Just the thought of the hair salon brings him back to the days when he got his hair done with his mother.

For a hair fetishist, the salon is the place they most love.

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