Goddess Dallas' Presents Kink Library! - brought to you by LDW Group » guided masturbation http://www.kinklibrary.com Where Erotic Kinksters Come to Browse and Learn Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:51:25 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 How to Create Trust Between Mistress and Fetish Caller http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/how-to-create-trust-between-mistress-and-fetish-caller/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/how-to-create-trust-between-mistress-and-fetish-caller/#comments Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:51:25 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=1431 One thing that happens when a caller does multiple calls with just one phone sex Mistress is that the two develop an increased level of trust.  Once that trust happens, the training sessions become much more intense and rewarding for the caller.

As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to create this [...]]]> One thing that happens when a caller does multiple calls with just one phone sex Mistress is that the two develop an increased level of trust.  Once that trust happens, the training sessions become much more intense and rewarding for the caller.

As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to create this level of trust.  I ask lots of questions and carefully listen to the answers so I can learn enough about my caller to be able to decide what each training session will contain.

While I’m getting to know the fetish caller, I encourage him tell me what training he is seeking—orgasm denial, cuckold, humiliation, CBT, bondage, for example.  From that, I begin very basic training sessions in that area while asking questions to learn more about my caller.  It’s true that some callers do not respond to questions and only want to “get off.”  For such callers, I may never be able to create a sufficient level of trust to give them a truly great session.

Other callers do understand the long term value of talking to the Mistress so she is better able to create truly unforgettable sessions.  For those callers, trust is the reason the Mistress has the freedom to mold those great sessions.

The more information I obtain, the better I can direct sessions which increase the caller’s satisfaction.  The more information I have and the more satisfied the caller becomes, the trust level increases exponentially.  In my experience, the more information the caller gives me and the better I listen to that and process it, the better I can push his buttons to get closer and closer to that perfect fetish fantasy call.

I have such fun with the callers with whom I have developed this trust; in fact, I sometimes think I have almost as much fun as they do.  When a caller hands over ultimate control to me, I know I have succeeded in weaving a web of trust around our sessions.

Recently, a long-time orgasm denial caller of mine decided it was time to trust me to take the lead and determine what the session will be each time he calls.  We had experimented with body worship, cuckold, and some light spanking, all of which he enjoyed.  With all that, I have a huge amount of information on which to draw in directing future sessions.

We discussed different ways things might go given his fetish interests and I learned a couple of new things.  Yes, still listening.  And I will continue to listen, of course.  Since the trust is now there, I also give him assignments to do between sessions and deny him the right to stroke unless he is on the phone with me.  Without trust, I could not effectively do these things.

In order to achieve great sessions, I need to maintain and increase the level of trust and continue to create great fetish fantasy sessions for my caller.  To do this, I keep on communicating with my caller, asking more questions and listening carefully in order to learn even more.  For those of you who wonder if there is more than just talking to someone so you can “get off,” try calling just one person for a while and developing that level of trust with her.  You’ll find yourself experiencing better and better sessions and find out that there’s so much more to experience and enjoy.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

Twitter:  www.twitter.com/GoddessDallas

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/how-to-create-trust-between-mistress-and-fetish-caller/feed/ 0 Erotic Fantasy and Visualization http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/erotic-fantasy-and-visualization/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/erotic-fantasy-and-visualization/#comments Sat, 24 Jul 2010 22:11:09 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=1291 The best phone sex Mistresses are experts at helping callers visualize their fantasy.  Now, I don’t necessarily tell the caller that’s what I’m doing.  In fact, he is likely not even aware that I’m doing this because it’s a matter of creating a scene so enticing that he eagerly enters it.  At that point, I [...]]]> The best phone sex Mistresses are experts at helping callers visualize their fantasy.  Now, I don’t necessarily tell the caller that’s what I’m doing.  In fact, he is likely not even aware that I’m doing this because it’s a matter of creating a scene so enticing that he eagerly enters it.  At that point, I use word pictures to transport him into and through his fantasy.  Creating that fantasy is key to what I do as a phone sex Mistress and is something I enjoy doing.   Yes, it takes time, but the experience is more than worth it.

Imagine, if you will, a tease and denial or guided masturbation session where the caller is able to see and feel a woman there with him, with her instructing, watching and perhaps stroking him.  It is my job to describe the scene and participants so well that the caller lives it.

With coerced bi trainings, I bring out the feeling, scent and sight of the other man and his cock.  In addition, I create a scene where the caller gets to experience his fantasy of sucking a cock or being fucked because he is ordered to do so.  Naturally, it’s what he wants, but he thinks it’s wrong to want it, so he needs me to “force” him to experience this.

When you’re looking for a great fantasy, one that you can see, smell, feel, and taste, give me a call.  I’ll create a scene from words that will bring your fantasy to life for you.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

Twitter:  www.twitter.com/GoddessDallas

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/erotic-fantasy-and-visualization/feed/ 0 Sensual or Strict Guided Masturbation –Which Do You Prefer? http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/sensual-or-strict-guided-masturbation-which-do-you-prefer/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/sensual-or-strict-guided-masturbation-which-do-you-prefer/#comments Fri, 23 Jul 2010 08:04:58 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=1251 Guys jack off; it’s a fact of life.  From the time their hormones kick in, guys jack off every chance they get.  Ever wonder why high school boys ask for so many hall passes to go to the bathroom?  Well, it’s not because they have to pee.

Of course, when the hormones smooth out and the [...]]]> Guys jack off; it’s a fact of life.  From the time their hormones kick in, guys jack off every chance they get.  Ever wonder why high school boys ask for so many hall passes to go to the bathroom?  Well, it’s not because they have to pee.

Of course, when the hormones smooth out and the jacking off slows down.  As guys (finally) mature, lots of them start looking for something to increase their wanking pleasure.  Since the quantity is a thing of the past, they start looking for quality.  That’s where guided masturbation and tease and denial may become options.

With a phone sex Mistress guiding them, men who want to work hard with their Mistress can achieve a level of pleasure through guided masturbation that they might never find on their own.  Men willing to venture into tease and denial are also testing themselves to see just how long they can last without a release.

Phone sex Mistresses may train in a sensual or strict manner.  Strict training is  more in line with the harder-edged BDSM session, where the Mistress commands the caller and he does as she orders.  There is very little playful talk and other interaction.  This style suits the caller who is into the BDSM lifestyle.

The sensual style is more fun for the majority of today’s guided masturbation and T&D callers.  These callers are rarely interested in the BDSM lifestyle.  They seek the control of a Mistress but appreciate some of the sensual play and interaction from the vanilla side of phone sex.

I enjoy leading both strict and sensual guided masturbation and T&D sessions.  Both are fun for me and for the callers; just tell me what it is you want before we get started.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

Twitter:  www.twitter.com/GoddessDallas

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/sensual-or-strict-guided-masturbation-which-do-you-prefer/feed/ 0 All Orgasms Are Not Created Equal http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/all-orgasms-are-not-created-equal/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/all-orgasms-are-not-created-equal/#comments Sat, 17 Jul 2010 21:38:49 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=1091 Not much is more satisfying than a great orgasm, right?  So why is it that you sometimes feel a little “cheated” after you’ve jacked off?  It just wasn’t that great, a real disappointment.  What causes that?

Very simple answer:  orgasms are not created equal.  Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale the heights [...]]]> Not much is more satisfying than a great orgasm, right?  So why is it that you sometimes feel a little “cheated” after you’ve jacked off?  It just wasn’t that great, a real disappointment.  What causes that?

Very simple answer:  orgasms are not created equal.  Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale the heights of pleasure.  The question is:  how do you get that great feeling more often?  Let’s talk.

Think about it.  When the orgasm you had isn’t great, you jerk off again, and maybe again.  The problem is, the more you jack off, the more desensitized your cock becomes, and the less great the orgasm is.  Then you start to jack off even harder and, instead of things getting better, they get worse, much worse.  This isn’t what you wanted at all and now you’re getting desperate.  So is your wife or girlfriend.

In desperation, you finally do the first smart thing you’ve done since you started trying to fix the problem yourself—you call a great Masturbatrix (or phone sex Mistress).  For those of you unfamiliar with the term, a Masturbatrix is a Dominatrix who specializes in orgasm denial and in guided masturbation.

I can hear you already.  “Orgasm denial?  I want to cum, I just want to feel better when I cum.”

OK, you’ve come to the right place.  Several orgasm denial sessions will put you into the right place physically to enjoy that release when you receive permission for it.  The same thing could be accomplished with guided masturbation, but it might take longer to achieve, depending on how closely you follow the instructions of your Masturbatrix.  A skilled Masturbatrix will lead you up to the heights without you ever touching your cock or balls.  She’ll deny you that release.  Then, finally, she’ll permit it and you’ll know just how good that orgasm can be.

If you’re cumming more and enjoying it less, it’s time to call an experienced Masturbatrix like me to take control of that cock of yours for a while until you again achieve those body-shaking, gut-wrenching orgasms you love.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

Twitter:  www.twitter.com/GoddessDallas

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2010/07/all-orgasms-are-not-created-equal/feed/ 0 Sensual Bondage, A Tiny Step Outside Your Comfort Zone http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/10/sensual-bondage-a-tiny-step-outside-your-comfort-zone/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/10/sensual-bondage-a-tiny-step-outside-your-comfort-zone/#comments Tue, 06 Oct 2009 21:11:52 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=655 The other day I had a caller on the line.  He said, with a big sigh, that he guessed he wanted some guided masturbation.  It sounded to me almost like he was preparing for yet another boring guided masturbation session, but didn’t know what else he might do.  After chatting briefly, I took a chance and asked him if he’d like to do a little erotic experiment with me.  He was a little doubtful, but I convinced him to give it a try.  (That’s part of what a phone sex Mistress can and should do for her callers.)
He’d already told me he was more interested in sensual sessions than in strict.  So, I set the scene.  We’ve just gotten in from our fifth date.  We haven’t had sex yet, but it seems like this just might be the night it happens.  After kissing and cuddling on the sofa, I lead him into the bedroom and gently remove his clothing.  I slide my clothing off slowly, leaving lingerie on.  He’s waiting in bed, on his back.
I open a drawer and pull out a pile of scarves.  After placing them on the bedside table, I straddle him, take his right hand and gently wrap a silk scarf around the wrist, then tie it to the headboard.  I do the same with the left wrist.  I then turn around and do the same with both ankles.  By this time he was panting and very excited.  Facing him again, I stroke his face lightly with my hands, then tie a scarf over his eyes.  Nothing is abrupt, everything is slow and sensual, accompanied by lots of stroking and a few kisses.  His soft moans told me he was having a good time now.
Then I began the sensual stroking, first with a feather, then with a silk scarf, then my fingernails, and mink gloves.  Finally, I began stroking him and teasing him with my hands and breasts.  His breathing became erratic and his moans got much louder until he yelled loudly as he exploded for me.
As we chatted briefly before saying goodbye, he told me he never touched himself at all because he was waiting for me to tell him to do so.  I never did and he was surprised that he came just by imagining the feel of all that I was doing to him.  I can tell you that I was one very happy phone sex Mistress and he was an extremely happy caller—one with whom I look forward to doing many more fun sessions.
If you’ve been feeling a little bored with your same old phone sex sessions, perhaps it’s time for you to take a tiny step outside the box and enjoy some sensual bondage.  Sound like fun?  Then call me at
888-232-1467.  That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so.  I want to create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!
Have you ever looked at all the wonderful Mistresses available and thought, “How can I ever pick the right one?”  Well, we have a solution for you!  Mistress Cecilia will conduct a special “tour” of LDW just for you.  She will answer your questions, get information from you about what you’re seeking, and help you select the perfect Mistress for you.  Check out http://www.communitykink.com/community_kink_tour.html for more info!
Hey there.  You can follow me on Twitter.  Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas.  I look forward to many happy tweets with you!
For those of you who might like to read info on your favorite fetishes and Mistresses, go to www.weeklystroker.com and subscribe to the newsletter.  My Q&A responses will be in the newsletter on October 5.
If you’re wondering when hosted chats, radio shows, partyline events or any special parties will be happening, we now have ONE PLACE where you can get all that info.  Go to www.themistressshow.com and you’ll get the current info.
Goddess Dallas – call 888-232-1467 for sessions

The other day I had a caller on the line.  He said, with a big sigh, that he guessed he wanted some guided masturbation.  It sounded to me almost like he was preparing for yet another boring guided masturbation session, but didn’t know what else he might do.  After chatting briefly, I took a chance and asked him if he’d like to do a little erotic experiment with me.  He was a little doubtful, but I convinced him to give it a try.  (That’s part of what a phone sex Mistress can and should do for her callers.)

He’d already told me he was more interested in sensual sessions than in strict.  So, I set the scene.  We’ve just gotten in from our fifth date.  We haven’t had sex yet, but it seems like this just might be the night it happens.  After kissing and cuddling on the sofa, I lead him into the bedroom and gently remove his clothing.  I slide my clothing off slowly, leaving lingerie on.  He’s waiting in bed, on his back.

I open a drawer and pull out a pile of scarves.  After placing them on the bedside table, I straddle him, take his right hand and gently wrap a silk scarf around the wrist, then tie it to the headboard.  I do the same with the left wrist.  I then turn around and do the same with both ankles.  By this time he was panting and very excited.  Facing him again, I stroke his face lightly with my hands, then tie a scarf over his eyes.  Nothing is abrupt, everything is slow and sensual, accompanied by lots of stroking and a few kisses.  His soft moans told me he was having a good time now.

Then I began the sensual stroking, first with a feather, then with a silk scarf, then my fingernails, and mink gloves.  Finally, I began stroking him and teasing him with my hands and breasts.  His breathing became erratic and his moans got much louder until he yelled loudly as he exploded for me.

As we chatted briefly before saying goodbye, he told me he never touched himself at all because he was waiting for me to tell him to do so.  I never did and he was surprised that he came just by imagining the feel of all that I was doing to him.  I can tell you that I was one very happy phone sex Mistress and he was an extremely happy caller—one who now loves sensual bondage as well as guided masturbation.

If you’ve been feeling a little bored with your same old phone sex sessions, perhaps it’s time for you to take a tiny step outside the box and enjoy some sensual bondage.  Sound like fun?  Then call me at 888-232-1467.  That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so.  I want to create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

Have you ever looked at all the wonderful Mistresses available and thought, “How can I ever pick the right one?”  Well, we have a solution for you!  Mistress Cecilia will conduct a special “tour” of LDW just for you.  She will answer your questions, get information from you about what you’re seeking, and help you select the perfect Mistress for you.  Check out http://www.communitykink.com/community_kink_tour.html for more info!

Hey there.  You can follow me on Twitter.  Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas.  I look forward to many happy tweets with you!

For those of you who might like to read info on your favorite fetishes and Mistresses, go to www.weeklystroker.com and subscribe to the newsletter.  My Q&A responses will be in the newsletter on October 5.

If you’re wondering when hosted chats, radio shows, partyline events or any special parties will be happening, we now have ONE PLACE where you can get all that info.  Go to www.themistressshow.com and you’ll get the current info.

Goddess Dallas – call 888-232-1467 for sessions

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/10/sensual-bondage-a-tiny-step-outside-your-comfort-zone/feed/ 0 The Sacred and Profane of Phone Sex http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/10/the-sacred-and-profane-of-phone-sex/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/10/the-sacred-and-profane-of-phone-sex/#comments Mon, 05 Oct 2009 22:48:19 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=651 Fancy sounding title, huh?  Well, it’s actually the result of me thinking of one of my callers.  He loves phone sex, is submissive and if he has limits with regard to the various fetishes, I haven’t found them yet.  To a phone sex Mistress, he is a dream caller—the guy who calls, chats for a bit and then no matter what direction I take the call, he’s thrilled and has a great time.
One of his favorite fantasies involves church and religion.  He loves to imagine what might happen if a beautiful woman displayed herself on the altar and a stern Dominatrix then ordered the men to pleasure her  in various ways.  He enjoys fantasizing about his college age daughter in such a situation.  I’ve created some very sensual, sexy scenes for him, complete with altar boys, priests and candles.
Another of his fantasies involves his wife, daughter and college age son all working in a strip/sex club, with all of them on stage pleasuring men at the same time.  Then my caller joins them to pleasure a few men himself.
Are these fantasies incest, something I won’t work with?  Not really.  They may have some incestuous aspects because of the family relationships.  However, they are much more accurately voyeurism and fetishism because my caller is primarily looking/peeping and there is no sexual contact among family members.  Even when he is participating on stage, his contact is with strangers, not other family members.
Are these unusual fantasies?  Yes, I suppose they are.  However, they are part and parcel with my caller’s very catholic embrace of all fetishes.  He has gone, in not quite six years, from tease and denial to forced bi, to voluntary bi, to cuckold, to bondage and beyond.  And he has set up a special altar with my photo, candles and a crucifix and prays to me—very sweet prayers to his Goddess of All Cocks.  And, when he is “bad” and does something he knows is wrong, he confesses to me and does his penance.    Sacrilegious?  Yes, I suppose it is.  But I must admit it’s a lot of fun!
Looking for a bit more unusual fantasy for your fetish?  Then call me at
888-232-1467.  That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so.  Give me a call and let me create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!
Have you ever looked at all the wonderful Mistresses available and thought, “How can I ever pick the right one?”  Well, we have a solution for you!  Mistress Cecilia will conduct a special “tour” of LDW just for you.  She will answer your questions, get information from you about what you’re seeking, and help you select the perfect Mistress for you.  Check out http://www.communitykink.com/community_kink_tour.html for more info!
Hey there.  You can follow me on Twitter.  Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas.  I look forward to many happy tweets with you!
For those of you who might like to read info on your favorite fetishes and Mistresses, go to www.weeklystroker.com and subscribe to the newsletter.  My Q&A responses will be in the newsletter on October 5.
If you’re wondering when hosted chats, radio shows, partyline events or any special parties will be happening, we now have ONE PLACE where you can get all that info.  Go to www.themistressshow.com and you’ll get the current info.
Goddess Dallas – call 888-232-1467 for sessions

Fancy sounding title, huh?  Well, it’s actually the result of me thinking of one of my callers.  He loves phone sex, is submissive and if he has limits with regard to the various fetishes, I haven’t found them yet.  To a phone sex Mistress, he is a dream caller—the guy who calls, chats for a bit and then no matter what direction I take the call, he’s thrilled and has a great time.

One of his favorite fantasies involves church and religion.  He loves to imagine what might happen if a beautiful woman displayed herself on the altar and a stern Dominatrix then ordered the men to pleasure her  in various ways.  He enjoys fantasizing about his college age daughter in such a situation.  I’ve created some very sensual, sexy scenes for him, complete with altar boys, priests and candles.

Another of his fantasies involves his wife, daughter and college age son all working in a strip/sex club, with all of them on stage pleasuring men at the same time.  Then my caller joins them to pleasure a few men himself.

Are these fantasies incest, something I won’t work with?  Not really.  They may have some incestuous aspects because of the family relationships.  However, they are much more accurately voyeurism and fetishism because my caller is primarily looking/peeping and there is no sexual contact among family members.  Even when he is participating on stage, his contact is with strangers, not other family members.

Are these unusual fantasies?  Yes, I suppose they are.  However, they are part and parcel with my caller’s very catholic embrace of all fetishes.  He has gone, in not quite six years, from tease and denial to forced bi, to voluntary bi, to cuckold, to bondage and beyond.  And he has set up a special altar with my photo, candles and a crucifix and prays to me—very sweet prayers to his Goddess of All Cocks.  And, when he is “bad” and does something he knows is wrong, he confesses to me and does his penance.    Sacrilegious?  Yes, I suppose it is.  But I must admit it’s a lot of fun!

Looking for a bit more unusual fantasy for your fetish?  Then call me at 888-232-1467.  That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so.  Give me a call and let me create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

Have you ever looked at all the wonderful Mistresses available and thought, “How can I ever pick the right one?”  Well, we have a solution for you!  Mistress Cecilia will conduct a special “tour” of LDW just for you.  She will answer your questions, get information from you about what you’re seeking, and help you select the perfect Mistress for you.  Check out http://www.communitykink.com/community_kink_tour.html for more info!

Hey there.  You can follow me on Twitter.  Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas.  I look forward to many happy tweets with you!

For those of you who might like to read info on your favorite fetishes and Mistresses, go to www.weeklystroker.com and subscribe to the newsletter.  My Q&A responses will be in the newsletter on October 5.

If you’re wondering when hosted chats, radio shows, partyline events or any special parties will be happening, we now have ONE PLACE where you can get all that info.  Go to www.themistressshow.com and you’ll get the current info.

Goddess Dallas – call 888-232-1467 for sessions

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/10/the-sacred-and-profane-of-phone-sex/feed/ 0 Schedule Change; Fun Cocksucking Calls; Great Domination http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/schedule-change-fun-cocksucking-calls-great-domination/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/schedule-change-fun-cocksucking-calls-great-domination/#comments Sat, 31 Jan 2009 00:04:38 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=498 After much consideration, I decided to change my schedule for calls to one that is a little more regular.  I have it posted here on my blog, so check it out.  If those hours don’t work for you, or you’re considering calling me during optional hours or hours I don’t mention being available, please be [...]]]> After much consideration, I decided to change my schedule for calls to one that is a little more regular.  I have it posted here on my blog, so check it out.  If those hours don’t work for you, or you’re considering calling me during optional hours or hours I don’t mention being available, please be sure you email me to schedule that time.  As a very experienced phone sex Mistress, I realized that a reliable routine for calls would help you find me for those calls.  I look forward to speaking with you.

I do enjoy calls with cocksuckers—both forced bi- and otherwise.  Recently, one of my cocksuckers wanted special scenes and locations for his calls.  He was looking for locations where he would feel a bit more frightened.  The Rock Store in Malibu, combined with a biker gang (no, the gangs don’t hang out there!), gave him a little extra kick.  Rough, tough and not particularly clean bikers with lots of weapons gave him a jolt, as did the late arrival of his ex-girlfriend, her husband and her best friend.  So did the County Jail during his next call, where he became a total slut for the other inmates and guards!  Of course, I arrived to bail him out just as the others were planning some cutting and physical damage to him.  What a great time he had—and what fun I had creating those scenes.  

Domination isn’t just yelling, pain, bondage or being very strict with a caller.  It’s actually about getting into the caller’s mind; creating a situation where that caller feels the control even when he’s not on the call with you.  I have several callers experiencing my very special form of domination.  One secretly enjoys wearing women’s clothing but wants to be dominated.  A stroker boy loves being challenged over and over and doing the daily assignments I give him.  My leather bondage boy thinks of me every time he sees leather!  And my pain slut remembers me as he feels the bruises and other evidence of our sessions.

When you’re ready for a great Mistress to take you to the next level, call me at 888-232-1467 and tell me what you’re looking for.  It takes time to create that special relationship, but once we do it, you’ll be very happy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/schedule-change-fun-cocksucking-calls-great-domination/feed/ 0 Stroke-Free Tease & Denial http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/stroke-free-tease-denial/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/stroke-free-tease-denial/#comments Thu, 15 Jan 2009 17:17:10 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=450 One of my long time callers recently decided to explore BDSM areas outside of Orgasm Denial or Guided Masturbation.  And he has given me the opportunity to move him into those areas.  As a phone sex Mistress, I am delighted that he trusts me to select the training to be done on any given session.

He [...]]]> One of my long time callers recently decided to explore BDSM areas outside of Orgasm Denial or Guided Masturbation.  And he has given me the opportunity to move him into those areas.  As a phone sex Mistress, I am delighted that he trusts me to select the training to be done on any given session.

He has been on a “no stroking” instruction for several weeks in between our sessions.  So I decided to create a very sexy, sensual tease, but not let him stroke at all during the tease.  I described a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his.  She comes into her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, begins to stroke herself and eventually masturbates.  Then her husband comes home, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they have sex.

Remember, now, my caller was on a “no stroking” instruction during this entire scene.  As I progressed with the story, he told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.”  Our call went well over an hour.  By the end he was panting and trembling as much as if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time.  He had not touched himself.  His ability to visualize that scene created the excitement for him.  He had not cum, although he was very close to cumming.  

During and after the fantasy story I reminded him that he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, to kiss, to make love to.  If anything, those reminders got him even more excited.  At the end of the call, I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call.  He was still “hard as a rock,” breathing heavily and very excited.

This particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills.  That let me create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to drive him to the edge and keep him there, panting and moaning, without his ever touching himself.

If you’re looking for a way to have increase your own fun, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and tell me you’d like to try a little stroke-free tease and denial scene.  Once you’ve tried it, you just might never go back!

Goddess Dallas 888-232-1467 for sessions

Listen to my radio show on www.cockradio.com Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday from 3 p.m.-5 p.m. (Eastern), 12 p.m.-2 p.m. (Pacific)

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/stroke-free-tease-denial/feed/ 0 Guided Masturbation – Not Just Jacking Off! http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/guided-masturbation-%e2%80%93-not-just-jacking-off/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/guided-masturbation-%e2%80%93-not-just-jacking-off/#comments Wed, 07 Jan 2009 23:46:34 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=432 Yes, I know.  Guided masturbation does sort of sound like jacking off while someone listens to you on the other end of the phone.  However, that’s not necessarily all that’s going on.  As a phone sex Mistress, I have many callers who enjoy their stroking sessions because I am there, urging them to explore areas [...]]]> Yes, I know.  Guided masturbation does sort of sound like jacking off while someone listens to you on the other end of the phone.  However, that’s not necessarily all that’s going on.  As a phone sex Mistress, I have many callers who enjoy their stroking sessions because I am there, urging them to explore areas of their body that they don’t usually stroke.  Or I’m urging them to last longer before they have that release—so the release is even better when it comes.  So, rather than just stroking as they might do if they were alone, they are having a great time finding new ways to increase their excitement and pleasure.  

Of course, I have had callers who are almost silent during their entire session.  Apparently they stroked, but did not breathe heavily or moan when getting close to the edge.  Some came so quietly I had no idea they came!  Where was the pleasure?  The excitement?  The satisfaction?  I have no idea now, nor did I at the time, what pleasure they received from the call.

Most of my callers love stroking and they look forward to how I’m going to take them on the journey to their orgasm.  With them I hear their excitement build as they breathe harder, moan and groan, sigh, and yell.  During their early stroking, they beg and plead to touch their cock before I finally permit them to do so.  Their volume increases as their excitement reaches new levels.  

Finally, when they can’t bear another minute of stroking, I permit them to cum.  Their pleasure, in both the journey and the release, is so much fun for both of us!  

As a Mistress, I enjoy helping my guided masturbation callers achieve the greatest pleasure and excitement from their sessions with me.  If you’re looking for a challenging and fun guided masturbation session, give me a call at 888-232-1467.  We’ll have some fun!

Goddess Dallas 888-232-1467 for sessions

Listen to my radio show on www.cockradio.com Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday from 3 p.m.-5 p.m. (Eastern), 12 p.m.-2 p.m. (Pacific)

]]> http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/guided-masturbation-%e2%80%93-not-just-jacking-off/feed/ 0 So You Like to Edge When Stroking! http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/so-you-like-to-edge-when-stroking/ http://www.kinklibrary.com/2009/01/so-you-like-to-edge-when-stroking/#comments Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:11:08 +0000 Goddess Dallas http://www.kinklibrary.com/?p=422 Sometimes I get a caller who wants to edge.  He sometimes doesn’t have a strong preference for whether he’s to be denied or to have a release.  No matter what, though, he definitely loves edging.  This is one of my most fun calls.  I love building him to the edge and then making him edge [...]]]> Sometimes I get a caller who wants to edge.  He sometimes doesn’t have a strong preference for whether he’s to be denied or to have a release.  No matter what, though, he definitely loves edging.  This is one of my most fun calls.  I love building him to the edge and then making him edge over and over.  

I suppose every Mistress has her own favorite ways of edging a caller.  Some have the caller go straight for the cock, stroking it throughout the call.  Others include the balls in the stroking as well.  Some start with very fast strokes to get to the edge quickly, then vary the speed to keep the caller edging again and again.  Others start with slow strokes and increase the speed slowly until the caller gets to the edge, then moves the caller back and forth to the edge.  All these techniques work.

I, however, prefer to take a different approach.  I use the entire body as the sex organ, instructing my caller to stroke various areas, building excitement before I ever permit him to touch the cock.  This lets lots of nerve endings in the body participate in the excitement and creates much higher levels of excitement than the other techniques.  

Once I permit my caller to stroke his cock and balls, he usually reaches the edge pretty quickly.  All those other nerve endings have created so much excitement, it doesn’t take much at all to reach the edge.  Then comes the fun!  I have him edge closer and closer to the edge without going over it.  I have lots of fun keeping my caller at the edge for a bit before slowing him down and giving him a brief respite.  

Especially with tease and denial callers, I love to keep them at the edge, stroking steadily, then have them increase the speed just a bit to edge even closer.  It put them much closer to the edge than the usually get and really pushes their limits.  Naturally, I am also teasing him with my voice and creating fantasies to help him enjoy his session even more.  After all, as a phone sex Mistress, that’s a big part of what I do to make the sessions unique for each caller.

When you’re ready for a great edging call and want to be pushed to your limits, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and we’ll have a great time getting you as far as you can go!

Goddess Dallas 888-232-1467 for sessions

Listen to my radio show on www.cockradio.com Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday from 3 p.m.-5 p.m. (Eastern), 12 p.m.-2 p.m. (Pacific)

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