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How Do You Like Your Tease & Denial?

Goddess Dallas — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 21:38:20 +0000

Let’s get serious here. Do you want your tease & denial sessions slow, sensual, erotic? Fast & furious? Strict? Lots of laughter? Do you like to edge lots of times or just go to the edge once? Are you noisy, loving how your excitement is building and how much you like what I’m doing to you? Are you silent, struggling not to let me or anyone else hear how excited you are?

As a phone sex Mistress, I have tease & denial callers who enjoy all these styles. Some respond to a long slow tease with lots of sensual, sexy talk. Others do better with a long and slow tease with very strict stroking instructions. Those who prefer a short session may not reach the heights of excitement that those who invest in longer sessions reach.

Because tease & denial callers are so very different in their expectations and desires, I create customized sessions for each caller to emphasize what that caller seeks. What I love to do is push my tease and denial subbies as close to the edge as I possibly can and keep them there. Not all callers are at the same level in their tease & denial training, so I focus on working within each caller’s limitations.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio. I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you. See www.eroticaudios.com.

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The Value of Anticipation in Creating a Great Fetish Phone Sex Session

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 02:46:15 +0000

I know many of you look forward to your calls with me and the other LDW Mistresses. As a phone sex Mistress, I can hear the excitement in your voice when you reply to my questions and engage in conversation. When I am dispatching, I hear it in the excitement and anxiety when your favorite Mistress is not available and you must wait for her. But, how much greater would it be if you and your Mistress deliberately increased your anticipation of the session? From experience, I know the session would be greater for both you and me (or your other Mistress).

So, how do I go about building anticipation for my callers? It differs for each caller and is definitely based on the type of fetish the caller enjoys. If you love guided masturbation or tease and denial, I might have you refrain from stroking or cumming for a period of days prior to our call. I might also direct you to look at photos on a sexy lingerie site during that time. During your call I would very slowly and deliberately increase your excitement, teasing you, then bringing you to the edge over and over before the end of the call. For my lovely cocksuckers, I also deny them stroking and cumming, and might direct them to men’s underwear sites where they can check out hot sexy guys to have their appetite whetted for our call. For guys loving cuckold fantasies I might have them read cuckold stories on the internet to increase their anticipation.

No matter what fetish you like, including CBT and bondage, anticipation will only make your call more exciting and enjoyable. So, be sure to plan your calls with me in advance so I can give you assignments to increase that anticipation!

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Erotic Non-Stroking Tease & Denial

Goddess Dallas — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 02:10:03 +0000

I can hear you now saying, “What do you mean, tease & denial without stroking? How can I be teased without stroking?”

Well, stick around and check it out. I’ve done this multiple times with a long time caller who is looking for more kick than he gets from guided masturbation or strict orgasm denial. He has developed such trust of me that he begs me to select the training to be done on any given session. As a phone sex Mistress, I know this is a result of my efforts at improving communication and trust between us.

Ok, ok, I hear you wondering how I manage to tease him without letting him touch. Here’s an example. During one session, I instructed him to visualize himself sitting in his bedroom in the dark. Then he sees a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his. She comes into enters her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, and begins to stroke herself. As her excitement increases and my non-stroking guy is sure she’s about to have an orgasm, her husband enters the bedroom, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they begin a marathon sexual session.

My caller, on a “do not stroke” instruction, told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.” After an hour of me describing the action in the apartment across the way, he was panting and trembling more than if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time. However, he had not touched himself, nor had he cum, though he was certainly ready for that orgasm.

During the entire session, I told him that because he was a stroker boy, he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, kiss and possess. After I ended the fantasy, I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call. We ended the call with him still breathing heavily and very excited.

Because this particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills, I was able to create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to get him to the edge and keep him there without his ever touching himself.

Are you interested in pushing the envelope, trying to move further in your erotic training than you ever have before? Give me a call and I’ll create a great scene for you. It might not work for you if you don’t trust me or if you aren’t good as visualization, but a true erotic experience should be sought, now shouldn’t it?

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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How to Create Trust Between Mistress and Fetish Caller

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:51:25 +0000

One thing that happens when a caller does multiple calls with just one phone sex Mistress is that the two develop an increased level of trust. Once that trust happens, the training sessions become much more intense and rewarding for the caller.

As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to create this level of trust. I ask lots of questions and carefully listen to the answers so I can learn enough about my caller to be able to decide what each training session will contain.

While I’m getting to know the fetish caller, I encourage him tell me what training he is seeking—orgasm denial, cuckold, humiliation, CBT, bondage, for example. From that, I begin very basic training sessions in that area while asking questions to learn more about my caller. It’s true that some callers do not respond to questions and only want to “get off.” For such callers, I may never be able to create a sufficient level of trust to give them a truly great session.

Other callers do understand the long term value of talking to the Mistress so she is better able to create truly unforgettable sessions. For those callers, trust is the reason the Mistress has the freedom to mold those great sessions.

The more information I obtain, the better I can direct sessions which increase the caller’s satisfaction. The more information I have and the more satisfied the caller becomes, the trust level increases exponentially. In my experience, the more information the caller gives me and the better I listen to that and process it, the better I can push his buttons to get closer and closer to that perfect fetish fantasy call.

I have such fun with the callers with whom I have developed this trust; in fact, I sometimes think I have almost as much fun as they do. When a caller hands over ultimate control to me, I know I have succeeded in weaving a web of trust around our sessions.

Recently, a long-time orgasm denial caller of mine decided it was time to trust me to take the lead and determine what the session will be each time he calls. We had experimented with body worship, cuckold, and some light spanking, all of which he enjoyed. With all that, I have a huge amount of information on which to draw in directing future sessions.

We discussed different ways things might go given his fetish interests and I learned a couple of new things. Yes, still listening. And I will continue to listen, of course. Since the trust is now there, I also give him assignments to do between sessions and deny him the right to stroke unless he is on the phone with me. Without trust, I could not effectively do these things.

In order to achieve great sessions, I need to maintain and increase the level of trust and continue to create great fetish fantasy sessions for my caller. To do this, I keep on communicating with my caller, asking more questions and listening carefully in order to learn even more. For those of you who wonder if there is more than just talking to someone so you can “get off,” try calling just one person for a while and developing that level of trust with her. You’ll find yourself experiencing better and better sessions and find out that there’s so much more to experience and enjoy.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Erotic Fantasy and Visualization

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 22:11:09 +0000

The best phone sex Mistresses are experts at helping callers visualize their fantasy. Now, I don’t necessarily tell the caller that’s what I’m doing. In fact, he is likely not even aware that I’m doing this because it’s a matter of creating a scene so enticing that he eagerly enters it. At that point, I use word pictures to transport him into and through his fantasy. Creating that fantasy is key to what I do as a phone sex Mistress and is something I enjoy doing. Yes, it takes time, but the experience is more than worth it.

Imagine, if you will, a tease and denial or guided masturbation session where the caller is able to see and feel a woman there with him, with her instructing, watching and perhaps stroking him. It is my job to describe the scene and participants so well that the caller lives it.

With coerced bi trainings, I bring out the feeling, scent and sight of the other man and his cock. In addition, I create a scene where the caller gets to experience his fantasy of sucking a cock or being fucked because he is ordered to do so. Naturally, it’s what he wants, but he thinks it’s wrong to want it, so he needs me to “force” him to experience this.

When you’re looking for a great fantasy, one that you can see, smell, feel, and taste, give me a call. I’ll create a scene from words that will bring your fantasy to life for you.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Sensual or Strict Guided Masturbation –Which Do You Prefer?

Goddess Dallas — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 08:04:58 +0000

Guys jack off; it’s a fact of life. From the time their hormones kick in, guys jack off every chance they get. Ever wonder why high school boys ask for so many hall passes to go to the bathroom? Well, it’s not because they have to pee.

Of course, when the hormones smooth out and the jacking off slows down. As guys (finally) mature, lots of them start looking for something to increase their wanking pleasure. Since the quantity is a thing of the past, they start looking for quality. That’s where guided masturbation and tease and denial may become options.

With a phone sex Mistress guiding them, men who want to work hard with their Mistress can achieve a level of pleasure through guided masturbation that they might never find on their own. Men willing to venture into tease and denial are also testing themselves to see just how long they can last without a release.

Phone sex Mistresses may train in a sensual or strict manner. Strict training is more in line with the harder-edged BDSM session, where the Mistress commands the caller and he does as she orders. There is very little playful talk and other interaction. This style suits the caller who is into the BDSM lifestyle.

The sensual style is more fun for the majority of today’s guided masturbation and T&D callers. These callers are rarely interested in the BDSM lifestyle. They seek the control of a Mistress but appreciate some of the sensual play and interaction from the vanilla side of phone sex.

I enjoy leading both strict and sensual guided masturbation and T&D sessions. Both are fun for me and for the callers; just tell me what it is you want before we get started.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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All Orgasms Are Not Created Equal

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 21:38:49 +0000

Not much is more satisfying than a great orgasm, right? So why is it that you sometimes feel a little “cheated” after you’ve jacked off? It just wasn’t that great, a real disappointment. What causes that?

Very simple answer: orgasms are not created equal. Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale the heights of pleasure. The question is: how do you get that great feeling more often? Let’s talk.

Think about it. When the orgasm you had isn’t great, you jerk off again, and maybe again. The problem is, the more you jack off, the more desensitized your cock becomes, and the less great the orgasm is. Then you start to jack off even harder and, instead of things getting better, they get worse, much worse. This isn’t what you wanted at all and now you’re getting desperate. So is your wife or girlfriend.

In desperation, you finally do the first smart thing you’ve done since you started trying to fix the problem yourself—you call a great Masturbatrix (or phone sex Mistress). For those of you unfamiliar with the term, a Masturbatrix is a Dominatrix who specializes in orgasm denial and in guided masturbation.

I can hear you already. “Orgasm denial? I want to cum, I just want to feel better when I cum.”

OK, you’ve come to the right place. Several orgasm denial sessions will put you into the right place physically to enjoy that release when you receive permission for it. The same thing could be accomplished with guided masturbation, but it might take longer to achieve, depending on how closely you follow the instructions of your Masturbatrix. A skilled Masturbatrix will lead you up to the heights without you ever touching your cock or balls. She’ll deny you that release. Then, finally, she’ll permit it and you’ll know just how good that orgasm can be.

If you’re cumming more and enjoying it less, it’s time to call an experienced Masturbatrix like me to take control of that cock of yours for a while until you again achieve those body-shaking, gut-wrenching orgasms you love.

What’s your fantasy? Everyone has at least one. Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy. The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Sensual Bondage, A Tiny Step Outside Your Comfort Zone

Goddess Dallas — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 21:11:52 +0000

The other day I had a caller on the line. He said, with a big sigh, that he guessed he wanted some guided masturbation. It sounded to me almost like he was preparing for yet another boring guided masturbation session, but didn’t know what else he might do. After chatting briefly, I took a chance and asked him if he’d like to do a little erotic experiment with me. He was a little doubtful, but I convinced him to give it a try. (That’s part of what a phone sex Mistress can and should do for her callers.)

He’d already told me he was more interested in sensual sessions than in strict. So, I set the scene. We’ve just gotten in from our fifth date. We haven’t had sex yet, but it seems like this just might be the night it happens. After kissing and cuddling on the sofa, I lead him into the bedroom and gently remove his clothing. I slide my clothing off slowly, leaving lingerie on. He’s waiting in bed, on his back.

I open a drawer and pull out a pile of scarves. After placing them on the bedside table, I straddle him, take his right hand and gently wrap a silk scarf around the wrist, then tie it to the headboard. I do the same with the left wrist. I then turn around and do the same with both ankles. By this time he was panting and very excited. Facing him again, I stroke his face lightly with my hands, then tie a scarf over his eyes. Nothing is abrupt, everything is slow and sensual, accompanied by lots of stroking and a few kisses. His soft moans told me he was having a good time now.

Then I began the sensual stroking, first with a feather, then with a silk scarf, then my fingernails, and mink gloves. Finally, I began stroking him and teasing him with my hands and breasts. His breathing became erratic and his moans got much louder until he yelled loudly as he exploded for me.

As we chatted briefly before saying goodbye, he told me he never touched himself at all because he was waiting for me to tell him to do so. I never did and he was surprised that he came just by imagining the feel of all that I was doing to him. I can tell you that I was one very happy phone sex Mistress and he was an extremely happy caller—one with whom I look forward to doing many more fun sessions.

888-232-1467. That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so. I want to create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

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As we chatted briefly before saying goodbye, he told me he never touched himself at all because he was waiting for me to tell him to do so. I never did and he was surprised that he came just by imagining the feel of all that I was doing to him. I can tell you that I was one very happy phone sex Mistress and he was an extremely happy caller—one who now loves sensual bondage as well as guided masturbation.

If you’ve been feeling a little bored with your same old phone sex sessions, perhaps it’s time for you to take a tiny step outside the box and enjoy some sensual bondage. Sound like fun? Then call me at 888-232-1467. That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so. I want to create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

Hey there. You can follow me on Twitter. Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas. I look forward to many happy tweets with you!

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The Sacred and Profane of Phone Sex

Goddess Dallas — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 22:48:19 +0000

Fancy sounding title, huh? Well, it’s actually the result of me thinking of one of my callers. He loves phone sex, is submissive and if he has limits with regard to the various fetishes, I haven’t found them yet. To a phone sex Mistress, he is a dream caller—the guy who calls, chats for a bit and then no matter what direction I take the call, he’s thrilled and has a great time.

One of his favorite fantasies involves church and religion. He loves to imagine what might happen if a beautiful woman displayed herself on the altar and a stern Dominatrix then ordered the men to pleasure her in various ways. He enjoys fantasizing about his college age daughter in such a situation. I’ve created some very sensual, sexy scenes for him, complete with altar boys, priests and candles.

Another of his fantasies involves his wife, daughter and college age son all working in a strip/sex club, with all of them on stage pleasuring men at the same time. Then my caller joins them to pleasure a few men himself.

Are these fantasies incest, something I won’t work with? Not really. They may have some incestuous aspects because of the family relationships. However, they are much more accurately voyeurism and fetishism because my caller is primarily looking/peeping and there is no sexual contact among family members. Even when he is participating on stage, his contact is with strangers, not other family members.

Are these unusual fantasies? Yes, I suppose they are. However, they are part and parcel with my caller’s very catholic embrace of all fetishes. He has gone, in not quite six years, from tease and denial to forced bi, to voluntary bi, to cuckold, to bondage and beyond. And he has set up a special altar with my photo, candles and a crucifix and prays to me—very sweet prayers to his Goddess of All Cocks. And, when he is “bad” and does something he knows is wrong, he confesses to me and does his penance. Sacrilegious? Yes, I suppose it is. But I must admit it’s a lot of fun!

Looking for a bit more unusual fantasy for your fetish? Then call me at

888-232-1467. That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so. Give me a call and let me create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

Hey there. You can follow me on Twitter. Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas. I look forward to many happy tweets with you!

Goddess Dallas – call 888-232-1467 for sessions

Looking for a bit more unusual fantasy for your fetish? Then call me at 888-232-1467. That’s my direct dial number and I answer even if I’m not signed on for calls provided I’m at home and available to do so. Give me a call and let me create an unusual, sexy fantasy for you!

Hey there. You can follow me on Twitter. Go to Twitter.com and ask to follow GoddessDallas. I look forward to many happy tweets with you!

Goddess Dallas – call 888-232-1467 for sessions

Schedule Change; Fun Cocksucking Calls; Great Domination

Goddess Dallas — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 00:04:38 +0000

After much consideration, I decided to change my schedule for calls to one that is a little more regular. I have it posted here on my blog, so check it out. If those hours don’t work for you, or you’re considering calling me during optional hours or hours I don’t mention being available, please be sure you email me to schedule that time. As a very experienced phone sex Mistress, I realized that a reliable routine for calls would help you find me for those calls. I look forward to speaking with you.

I do enjoy calls with cocksuckers—both forced bi- and otherwise. Recently, one of my cocksuckers wanted special scenes and locations for his calls. He was looking for locations where he would feel a bit more frightened. The Rock Store in Malibu, combined with a biker gang (no, the gangs don’t hang out there!), gave him a little extra kick. Rough, tough and not particularly clean bikers with lots of weapons gave him a jolt, as did the late arrival of his ex-girlfriend, her husband and her best friend. So did the County Jail during his next call, where he became a total slut for the other inmates and guards! Of course, I arrived to bail him out just as the others were planning some cutting and physical damage to him. What a great time he had—and what fun I had creating those scenes.

Domination isn’t just yelling, pain, bondage or being very strict with a caller. It’s actually about getting into the caller’s mind; creating a situation where that caller feels the control even when he’s not on the call with you. I have several callers experiencing my very special form of domination. One secretly enjoys wearing women’s clothing but wants to be dominated. A stroker boy loves being challenged over and over and doing the daily assignments I give him. My leather bondage boy thinks of me every time he sees leather! And my pain slut remembers me as he feels the bruises and other evidence of our sessions.

When you’re ready for a great Mistress to take you to the next level, call me at 888-232-1467 and tell me what you’re looking for. It takes time to create that special relationship, but once we do it, you’ll be very happy.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467