Well, stick around and check it out.  I’ve done this multiple times with a long time caller who is looking for more kick than he gets from guided masturbation or strict orgasm [...]]]> I can hear you now saying, “What do you mean, tease & denial without stroking?  How can I be teased without stroking?”

Well, stick around and check it out.  I’ve done this multiple times with a long time caller who is looking for more kick than he gets from guided masturbation or strict orgasm denial.  He has developed such trust of me that he begs me to select the training to be done on any given session.  As a phone sex Mistress, I know this is a result of my efforts at improving communication and trust between us.

Ok, ok, I hear you wondering how I manage to tease him without letting him touch.  Here’s an example.  During one session, I instructed him to visualize himself sitting in his bedroom in the dark.  Then he sees a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his.  She comes into enters her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, and begins to stroke herself.  As her excitement increases and my non-stroking guy is sure she’s about to have an orgasm, her husband enters the bedroom, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they begin a marathon sexual session.

My caller, on a “do not stroke” instruction, told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.”  After an hour of me describing the action in the apartment across the way, he was panting and trembling more than if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time.  However, he had not touched himself, nor had he cum, though he was certainly ready for that orgasm.

During the entire session, I told him that because he was a stroker boy, he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, kiss and possess.  After I ended the fantasy, I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call.  We ended the call with him still breathing heavily and very excited.

Because this particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills, I was able to create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to get him to the edge and keep him there without his ever touching himself.

Are you interested in pushing the envelope, trying to move further in your erotic training than you ever have before?  Give me a call and I’ll create a great scene for you.  It might not work for you if you don’t trust me or if you aren’t good as visualization, but a true erotic experience should be sought, now shouldn’t it?

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to [...]]]> One thing that happens when a caller does multiple calls with just one phone sex Mistress is that the two develop an increased level of trust.  Once that trust happens, the training sessions become much more intense and rewarding for the caller.

As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to create this level of trust.  I ask lots of questions and carefully listen to the answers so I can learn enough about my caller to be able to decide what each training session will contain.

While I’m getting to know the fetish caller, I encourage him tell me what training he is seeking—orgasm denial, cuckold, humiliation, CBT, bondage, for example.  From that, I begin very basic training sessions in that area while asking questions to learn more about my caller.  It’s true that some callers do not respond to questions and only want to “get off.”  For such callers, I may never be able to create a sufficient level of trust to give them a truly great session.

Other callers do understand the long term value of talking to the Mistress so she is better able to create truly unforgettable sessions.  For those callers, trust is the reason the Mistress has the freedom to mold those great sessions.

The more information I obtain, the better I can direct sessions which increase the caller’s satisfaction.  The more information I have and the more satisfied the caller becomes, the trust level increases exponentially.  In my experience, the more information the caller gives me and the better I listen to that and process it, the better I can push his buttons to get closer and closer to that perfect fetish fantasy call.

I have such fun with the callers with whom I have developed this trust; in fact, I sometimes think I have almost as much fun as they do.  When a caller hands over ultimate control to me, I know I have succeeded in weaving a web of trust around our sessions.

Recently, a long-time orgasm denial caller of mine decided it was time to trust me to take the lead and determine what the session will be each time he calls.  We had experimented with body worship, cuckold, and some light spanking, all of which he enjoyed.  With all that, I have a huge amount of information on which to draw in directing future sessions.

We discussed different ways things might go given his fetish interests and I learned a couple of new things.  Yes, still listening.  And I will continue to listen, of course.  Since the trust is now there, I also give him assignments to do between sessions and deny him the right to stroke unless he is on the phone with me.  Without trust, I could not effectively do these things.

In order to achieve great sessions, I need to maintain and increase the level of trust and continue to create great fetish fantasy sessions for my caller.  To do this, I keep on communicating with my caller, asking more questions and listening carefully in order to learn even more.  For those of you who wonder if there is more than just talking to someone so you can “get off,” try calling just one person for a while and developing that level of trust with her.  You’ll find yourself experiencing better and better sessions and find out that there’s so much more to experience and enjoy.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

Twitter:  www.twitter.com/GoddessDallas

Of course, when the hormones smooth out [...]]]> Guys jack off; it’s a fact of life.  From the time their hormones kick in, guys jack off every chance they get.  Ever wonder why high school boys ask for so many hall passes to go to the bathroom?  Well, it’s not because they have to pee.

Of course, when the hormones smooth out and the jacking off slows down.  As guys (finally) mature, lots of them start looking for something to increase their wanking pleasure.  Since the quantity is a thing of the past, they start looking for quality.  That’s where guided masturbation and tease and denial may become options.

With a phone sex Mistress guiding them, men who want to work hard with their Mistress can achieve a level of pleasure through guided masturbation that they might never find on their own.  Men willing to venture into tease and denial are also testing themselves to see just how long they can last without a release.

Phone sex Mistresses may train in a sensual or strict manner.  Strict training is  more in line with the harder-edged BDSM session, where the Mistress commands the caller and he does as she orders.  There is very little playful talk and other interaction.  This style suits the caller who is into the BDSM lifestyle.

The sensual style is more fun for the majority of today’s guided masturbation and T&D callers.  These callers are rarely interested in the BDSM lifestyle.  They seek the control of a Mistress but appreciate some of the sensual play and interaction from the vanilla side of phone sex.

I enjoy leading both strict and sensual guided masturbation and T&D sessions.  Both are fun for me and for the callers; just tell me what it is you want before we get started.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

Twitter:  www.twitter.com/GoddessDallas

Very simple answer:  orgasms are not created equal.  Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale [...]]]> Not much is more satisfying than a great orgasm, right?  So why is it that you sometimes feel a little “cheated” after you’ve jacked off?  It just wasn’t that great, a real disappointment.  What causes that?

Very simple answer:  orgasms are not created equal.  Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale the heights of pleasure.  The question is:  how do you get that great feeling more often?  Let’s talk.

Think about it.  When the orgasm you had isn’t great, you jerk off again, and maybe again.  The problem is, the more you jack off, the more desensitized your cock becomes, and the less great the orgasm is.  Then you start to jack off even harder and, instead of things getting better, they get worse, much worse.  This isn’t what you wanted at all and now you’re getting desperate.  So is your wife or girlfriend.

In desperation, you finally do the first smart thing you’ve done since you started trying to fix the problem yourself—you call a great Masturbatrix (or phone sex Mistress).  For those of you unfamiliar with the term, a Masturbatrix is a Dominatrix who specializes in orgasm denial and in guided masturbation.

I can hear you already.  “Orgasm denial?  I want to cum, I just want to feel better when I cum.”

OK, you’ve come to the right place.  Several orgasm denial sessions will put you into the right place physically to enjoy that release when you receive permission for it.  The same thing could be accomplished with guided masturbation, but it might take longer to achieve, depending on how closely you follow the instructions of your Masturbatrix.  A skilled Masturbatrix will lead you up to the heights without you ever touching your cock or balls.  She’ll deny you that release.  Then, finally, she’ll permit it and you’ll know just how good that orgasm can be.

If you’re cumming more and enjoying it less, it’s time to call an experienced Masturbatrix like me to take control of that cock of yours for a while until you again achieve those body-shaking, gut-wrenching orgasms you love.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

Twitter:  www.twitter.com/GoddessDallas