As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to create this [...]]]> One thing that happens when a caller does multiple calls with just one phone sex Mistress is that the two develop an increased level of trust.  Once that trust happens, the training sessions become much more intense and rewarding for the caller.

As a professional Mistress, I know how difficult it can be to create this level of trust.  I ask lots of questions and carefully listen to the answers so I can learn enough about my caller to be able to decide what each training session will contain.

While I’m getting to know the fetish caller, I encourage him tell me what training he is seeking—orgasm denial, cuckold, humiliation, CBT, bondage, for example.  From that, I begin very basic training sessions in that area while asking questions to learn more about my caller.  It’s true that some callers do not respond to questions and only want to “get off.”  For such callers, I may never be able to create a sufficient level of trust to give them a truly great session.

Other callers do understand the long term value of talking to the Mistress so she is better able to create truly unforgettable sessions.  For those callers, trust is the reason the Mistress has the freedom to mold those great sessions.

The more information I obtain, the better I can direct sessions which increase the caller’s satisfaction.  The more information I have and the more satisfied the caller becomes, the trust level increases exponentially.  In my experience, the more information the caller gives me and the better I listen to that and process it, the better I can push his buttons to get closer and closer to that perfect fetish fantasy call.

I have such fun with the callers with whom I have developed this trust; in fact, I sometimes think I have almost as much fun as they do.  When a caller hands over ultimate control to me, I know I have succeeded in weaving a web of trust around our sessions.

Recently, a long-time orgasm denial caller of mine decided it was time to trust me to take the lead and determine what the session will be each time he calls.  We had experimented with body worship, cuckold, and some light spanking, all of which he enjoyed.  With all that, I have a huge amount of information on which to draw in directing future sessions.

We discussed different ways things might go given his fetish interests and I learned a couple of new things.  Yes, still listening.  And I will continue to listen, of course.  Since the trust is now there, I also give him assignments to do between sessions and deny him the right to stroke unless he is on the phone with me.  Without trust, I could not effectively do these things.

In order to achieve great sessions, I need to maintain and increase the level of trust and continue to create great fetish fantasy sessions for my caller.  To do this, I keep on communicating with my caller, asking more questions and listening carefully in order to learn even more.  For those of you who wonder if there is more than just talking to someone so you can “get off,” try calling just one person for a while and developing that level of trust with her.  You’ll find yourself experiencing better and better sessions and find out that there’s so much more to experience and enjoy.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Of course, when the hormones smooth out and the [...]]]> Guys jack off; it’s a fact of life.  From the time their hormones kick in, guys jack off every chance they get.  Ever wonder why high school boys ask for so many hall passes to go to the bathroom?  Well, it’s not because they have to pee.

Of course, when the hormones smooth out and the jacking off slows down.  As guys (finally) mature, lots of them start looking for something to increase their wanking pleasure.  Since the quantity is a thing of the past, they start looking for quality.  That’s where guided masturbation and tease and denial may become options.

With a phone sex Mistress guiding them, men who want to work hard with their Mistress can achieve a level of pleasure through guided masturbation that they might never find on their own.  Men willing to venture into tease and denial are also testing themselves to see just how long they can last without a release.

Phone sex Mistresses may train in a sensual or strict manner.  Strict training is  more in line with the harder-edged BDSM session, where the Mistress commands the caller and he does as she orders.  There is very little playful talk and other interaction.  This style suits the caller who is into the BDSM lifestyle.

The sensual style is more fun for the majority of today’s guided masturbation and T&D callers.  These callers are rarely interested in the BDSM lifestyle.  They seek the control of a Mistress but appreciate some of the sensual play and interaction from the vanilla side of phone sex.

I enjoy leading both strict and sensual guided masturbation and T&D sessions.  Both are fun for me and for the callers; just tell me what it is you want before we get started.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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Very simple answer:  orgasms are not created equal.  Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale the heights [...]]]> Not much is more satisfying than a great orgasm, right?  So why is it that you sometimes feel a little “cheated” after you’ve jacked off?  It just wasn’t that great, a real disappointment.  What causes that?

Very simple answer:  orgasms are not created equal.  Some will disappoint, some be just so-so, and others scale the heights of pleasure.  The question is:  how do you get that great feeling more often?  Let’s talk.

Think about it.  When the orgasm you had isn’t great, you jerk off again, and maybe again.  The problem is, the more you jack off, the more desensitized your cock becomes, and the less great the orgasm is.  Then you start to jack off even harder and, instead of things getting better, they get worse, much worse.  This isn’t what you wanted at all and now you’re getting desperate.  So is your wife or girlfriend.

In desperation, you finally do the first smart thing you’ve done since you started trying to fix the problem yourself—you call a great Masturbatrix (or phone sex Mistress).  For those of you unfamiliar with the term, a Masturbatrix is a Dominatrix who specializes in orgasm denial and in guided masturbation.

I can hear you already.  “Orgasm denial?  I want to cum, I just want to feel better when I cum.”

OK, you’ve come to the right place.  Several orgasm denial sessions will put you into the right place physically to enjoy that release when you receive permission for it.  The same thing could be accomplished with guided masturbation, but it might take longer to achieve, depending on how closely you follow the instructions of your Masturbatrix.  A skilled Masturbatrix will lead you up to the heights without you ever touching your cock or balls.  She’ll deny you that release.  Then, finally, she’ll permit it and you’ll know just how good that orgasm can be.

If you’re cumming more and enjoying it less, it’s time to call an experienced Masturbatrix like me to take control of that cock of yours for a while until you again achieve those body-shaking, gut-wrenching orgasms you love.

What’s your fantasy?  Everyone has at least one.  Give me a call and we’ll talk about your favorite fantasy.  The highlight of your call will be the great roleplay we do of your fantasy.

How about an audio made just for you—something hot, sexy and totally yours? Contact me for your custom audio.  I’ll write and record a script for the fetish you describe, or I will record from a script written by you.  See www.eroticaudios.com.

Goddess Dallas – for sessions call 888-232-1467

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As many of you know, I’m a phone sex Mistress with rather eclectic tastes.  Some of my favorite BDSM areas make a [...]]]> Hey you horny stroker boys and fetish freaks, I’ve decided to play a game with you.  Yes, a game with Goddess Dallas.  It’s a game so simple, with rules so easy, everyone can enjoy.

As many of you know, I’m a phone sex Mistress with rather eclectic tastes.  Some of my favorite BDSM areas make a few of you shiver with fear, some in excitement.  I like classic rock music, some country music and lots of those old time blues.  If you’ve looked at my gift list you’ve noticed I like high end electronics, DVDs of some of my favorite television shows, murder mystery and cop mystery books, and, of course, my favorite movie DVDs.  Will it surprise you to know that my questions are likely to be very eclectic too?

HINTS:  Those of you who are smart and eclectic, like me, and have studied, like me, just might have better odds.  Also, Google did the best job on helping find the answers to questions I tested.  Use your favorite search engine, of course, but that’s a free hint for you.  See what a generous and helpful Mistress I am!

I’m not usually much for games, but I literally dreamt this one up during the night and decided to try it.

OK, I know what you’re thinking, “So start telling us the game and prizes already!”  OK, here we go.

THE GAME:  At irregular intervals any time of day, I will drop into the open chatrooms at community kink and post the game in all rooms with chatters in them.  YOU will have TEN minutes to get an email into my email account (which is posted on the various websites on my profile pages) with your answer.  Be sure to put “Game Entry” into your subject box.  Yes, my email notes the precise time of delivery.

THE PRIZE:  If your answer is correct and is the first one received, you will win a free call with me.

THE RULES:

1. Late entries are not eligible to win the prize, but you might get a “great job” email from me if you got the answer right.

2. You must be 18 years of age or older, no exceptions.

3. You must have completed a fully paid for call with any LDW Mistress prior to July 1, 2009.

4. You must agree to schedule a date and time for your call with me within 30 days from the date I let you know you won.

5. You must call my direct number, 888-232-1467, in order to do the call.  The Call Center will not know who has won and by when you must do your calls and will not be asked to keep track of that.

So, the game is afoot.  Be prepared to play when the game is posted in the chatroom!  And I urge all you little naughty phone sex pervs to play!

And remember:  for creative, outside the box fetish roleplays and sessions, call me!

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He [...]]]> One of my long time callers recently decided to explore BDSM areas outside of Orgasm Denial or Guided Masturbation.  And he has given me the opportunity to move him into those areas.  As a phone sex Mistress, I am delighted that he trusts me to select the training to be done on any given session.

He has been on a “no stroking” instruction for several weeks in between our sessions.  So I decided to create a very sexy, sensual tease, but not let him stroke at all during the tease.  I described a beautiful woman in the apartment across from his.  She comes into her bedroom, turns on the light, undresses, brushes her hair, begins to stroke herself and eventually masturbates.  Then her husband comes home, undresses and, after a long time of stroking and teasing each other, they have sex.

Remember, now, my caller was on a “no stroking” instruction during this entire scene.  As I progressed with the story, he told me he was “hard as a rock” and “getting harder and harder.”  Our call went well over an hour.  By the end he was panting and trembling as much as if he had been stroking at the edge for most of that time.  He had not touched himself.  His ability to visualize that scene created the excitement for him.  He had not cum, although he was very close to cumming.  

During and after the fantasy story I reminded him that he would never have what the man across the way had—a beautiful sensual woman to caress, to kiss, to make love to.  If anything, those reminders got him even more excited.  At the end of the call, I reminded him that he was not to stroke, and most certainly not to cum before our next call.  He was still “hard as a rock,” breathing heavily and very excited.

This particular caller is very bright and has great visualization skills.  That let me create this wonderful scene for him and know that it would have the effect I wanted—namely, to drive him to the edge and keep him there, panting and moaning, without his ever touching himself.

If you’re looking for a way to have increase your own fun, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and tell me you’d like to try a little stroke-free tease and denial scene.  Once you’ve tried it, you just might never go back!

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