I do lots of CBT calls. Frequently I hear from callers who are new to me that they weren’t pushed hard enough or were pushed too hard by Mistresses they’ve worked with in the past. Sometimes this might happen because the previous Mistress had not yet developed much expertise with CBT. Sometimes, though, it happens because the Mistress rushes into the hardcore pain too quickly. I reassure these callers that I have lots of experience with CBT sessions and will work with them to achieve a great session. Because I’m very experienced with CBT, I am confident that, with their cooperation, I can achieve great results with their CBT session.
Cooperation from the caller is critical. Since this is not a live session, the caller must have sufficient toys and implements to use to create the pain. He must also be willing to follow my instructions and to trust me. Naturally, he will have a safety word to use in case a particular technique becomes too much for him to handle.
There is a pain continuum that starts light, with spanking and pinching and moves right on up the scale to the most extreme torture techniques. It is normal for the caller to feel the most extreme techniques for a week or longer after the session.
Knowing the level my caller has achieved on that scale is critical to creating a great session for him. So, I use questions to find out. What have you done? What “toys” do you have for us to use today?
Once I have an idea of what they’ve done before and their reaction to it, I sometimes have them supplement their “toy” supply with household items. Before I begin instructing them in the techniques I want them to use, I have decided the starting and ending point of the pain scale for that day.
For me, it’s important to start at the right place for the caller. Anything else will likely cause a caller to end the call early and be unsatisfied. I move my caller steadily up the pain scale I’ve decided upon. Checking on how they’re doing is particularly necessary with a caller who’s new to me or with whom I’ve done just a couple of trainings. I don’t want to over- or under-estimate their pain threshold. With my regular CBT callers, I don’t need to ask—I know where their threshold is and how far to push them.
This is my recipe for a great CBT training. As an experienced phone sex Mistress, I am confident in my ability to handle CBT callers. For all you aficionados, give me a call at 888-232-1467 and find out what you’ve been missing.
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